my bf cheated on me with my friend and he keep saying it's just a booty call and he keep asking for me back, but it hard cause i still love him but alot of my feelings change and i feel like i can't go back with him.
2006-07-10 07:21:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he call my house every day ,keep sending me for give me and tack me back on my computer and i don't know what to do
2006-07-10 07:24:54 · update #1
Why would you ever accept this type of infidelity?
If he needs a "booty call" from someone else NOW, what's to say he won't continue to 'need' them? The fact that he had absolutely no respect for you or your relationship with your friend says it all.
Why would you EVER want to continue to see someone who purposefully hurts you and in such a devastating manner? Kick him to the curb and count your lucky stars you found out now rather than later when you were even more invested.
YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS!!!!
2006-07-10 07:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your boyfriend going out for a booty call when he has you for a booty call is the first thing I would ask him. I would also ask the friend what in the hell is she doing going out with him when she knows you and him were a couple. Doesn't sound too much like a freind to me or she is a friend you need to get rid of. If he has cheated on you there's no doubt he will cheat again probably on her and then she will feel the pain you have. It's time to let him go because if you can't trust him then it's not going to be a good relationship and I'm am sure you don't want or have time to wonder every minute of every day where he is at or what is he doing.
Remember that you are the one who has been faithful and therefore you deserve someone who will treat you the way a woman needs to be treated, with love, honesty and compassion.
2006-07-10 07:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by dasani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely shouldn't get back together with him. You don't deserve him since he cheated on you. No one does. You deserve to be treated with respect and love and also knowing that you can trust that person. Booty call or no booty call, it wasn't right for him to do that and he should know that. Don't get back with him. If he calls you or sends you a message tell him to stop calling you and sending you messages and hang up. If he continues, don't pick up the the phone(or pick up and hang up) and delete the messages. He'll get the memo after a while. Remember you deserve so much more than him. Someone that you can trust and that will give you the respect you deserve.
2006-07-10 07:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by britneyc05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back. Don't ever look back. What you guys had, which is what you used to love, should be memories now. You won't be able to trust him which will cause problems in the future. Besides, you need to be with someone who RESPECTS you and cheating on you and saying it's just a booty call it's nuts.
2006-07-10 07:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it, move on. Besides if you take him back who's to say he won't do it again. Don't put yourself through the heart ache of figuring there's a possibility things will work out. You need a sure thing. Besides he sounds like a total half wit if he's going to say its just a booty call. Move on, you deserve better. Give better a chance.
2006-07-10 07:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You childish thing you.
Please don't do sex again, you might reproduce.
Let's see you don't know how to pick a man (he cheats)
He thinks you are stupid (it was just a booty call -- you are by the way)
You still love him (idiot)
I hope this proves to you that there is no possible way you can be smart enough to use Birth Control it won't work for you.
2006-07-10 07:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to change. The fact that he's even talking about his cheating as a "booty call" tells me this wasn't a one-time slip-up. He has committment issues and he's going to hurt you again.
Take some time alone and then find someone who respects you.
2006-07-10 07:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back. Once he cheats, he's left that mark. You can do so much better. Plus, he went behind your back with a friend. That is beyond low. I know you still love him, but you have to move on to someone that will treat you right. Don't stay in an emotionally abusive relationship - you deserve better!
2006-07-10 07:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to focus on you right now. Focus on healing the pain from all this and if that includes getting away from him then you should. If you can move on properly with him in your life than no one is to judge. But I would definately get a new friend....Sorry for those two....people just dont think about the one getting cheated on...they really don't huh? :) Best of luck with whatever you decide. Hope you are able to heal from this and move on with your life soon. Take care girl.
2006-07-10 07:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My rule is, never date an ex.
You broke up for a reason in the first place.
I never expect someone to change completely. Think about how hard it would be for you to change an aspect of your personality.
Be thankfull you are not the girlfriend of a cheating sod, and move onto someone who is deserving of you, and thinks so much of you that he will never cheat on you. Everyone deserves that much.
2006-07-10 07:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋