Ok, basically i have a boyfriend who i'm totally in love with and he loves me too, but recently i have met another boy on msn who i'm very attracted to!! He flirts with me all the time and thinks i'm really sexy, but i love my boyfriend and it makes me feel guilty flirting with this other boy. I'm really attracted to my boyfriend, but this guy is so hot!! please help.
2006-07-10 07:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by lil_miss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You actually make this an easy question to answer. You say that you are TOTALLY IN LOVE with your boyfriend, but at the same time are flattered by the boy on msn FLIRTS and THINKS you are sexy.
Tell the boy on msn to take a hike and wipe away the guilt and enjoy your boyfriend. Better still for the boy on msn, just click delete and say nothing. Trust me he is used to it. The msn guy is NOT hot, that is in your imagination, he most likely drinks too much, swears, picks his nose, claims wax from his ears with a pen, leaves the seat up afterwards, looks at all the girls, eats with his mouth open, farts in bed and worst of all, never puts the top on the toothpaste.
Get the picture, sorry to be blunt but just may be its needed here.
Good luck.
PS Dont put off delete DO IT NOW!
2006-07-10 07:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your boyfriend, especially if it's the real thing. You will never find something like that easily. Have you actually met the guy you talk to on MSN? It's very easy to get carried away in a virtual world, you lose your inhibitions and start considering things you never would in reality. Listen to the guilty voice and don't take things too far with MSN guy, you'll just regret it if you go behind your boyfriend's back who obviously really loves you.
2006-07-10 07:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A general rule in life, any kind of self gratification (your lust for the new guy) that results in hurting another person is not worth it. Take it from me, I have been there :) Stay away from the new friend, and also, try to find out why you lust for him and not for your boyfriend. If you want to make your relationship with your bf work, work on it! Work on generating the same feeling with your bf.
2006-07-10 07:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by sam_van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you LOVE your boyfriend and the other guy is just lust!!! remember that dont give up love for lust cuz that lust may not go anywhere...and remember there are alot of feelings..how would u feel if your bf had a girl he was really attracted to and flirted with? if you think it will go further dont talk to him anymore its not worth losing a relationship over
2006-07-10 07:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so much stronger than lust. Don't talk to the other guy then, break off whatever you have. If you truly love your boyfriend then you should know that it's the right thing to do. Doesn't matter how hot he is.
2006-07-10 07:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your boyfriend and stop talking to this other guy. Lust is fleeting and won't last - and in the process it will destroy your relationship with your boyfriend. If you and your boyfriend are in love then respect your relationship and stop messing around and flirting with this other guy.
2006-07-10 07:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the lucky one, If you can go on with both. Try to manage your boyfrien that you love that if he fulfill you lust you will leave the other one or let you allow to have a relationship with the other one. As the other one knows that you love him but it is his greatness that he does not object. But do not even think to leave the one that you really love if he really loves you and will never leaves you.
2006-07-10 07:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short. Flirt and enjoy!! ;)
Just try not to get caught...and for all you know your 'loving' bf could be doing the same thing to you....haha..now that would be funny. Talk about an eye for an eye. Dont u think?
2006-07-10 07:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with love it's a whole lot harder to find than lust. Besides the lust will fade and then you'll be looking for love anyway.
2006-07-10 07:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by love2bake&eat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should feel bad about flirting because he proble does it to. You can like two people and the same time just make a list on pros and cons of them...
2006-07-10 07:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋