If your girlfriend slept with another girl- would you consider it cheating? Last night my boyfriend walked in and now he is hurt, am i really to blame, tequilla does that...
Do you think I cheated on my boyfriend?
2006-07-10 07:05:58 · 73 answers · asked by nat_00420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never thaught he would have a problem, I thaught he would be turned on if anything. And I am not the carpet mucher, my friend is- lol
2006-07-10 07:09:27 · update #1
It only happend that once, its not like it was planned
2006-07-10 07:12:10 · update #2
liquor isnt an excuse- but it wouldnt have happend if we werent drunk. And my man knows I am Bi- he knows this has happend to me before we were together, and he never told me he would have a problem.
2006-07-10 07:23:48 · update #3
cloe_mia
IT WASNT A GUY!!
2006-07-10 07:28:37 · update #4
I would be upset that I couldnt at least watch....I mean if I ever was lucky enough for my girlfriend to hook up with another chick..even if i couldnt be involved i would wanna watch...thats probably why he was hurt.....its like missing the super bowl or something.
2006-07-10 07:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I had a bi girl friend for several years. I never got jealous. I was even allowed in once (with certain parameters i.e. what I couldn't do to the other girl) If I couldn't keep her interested in me then too bad. I told her there wasn't a problem with girls only boys. Frankly she was so good in the sack and charming outside the sack I never considered cheating on her. I wouldn't ever consider homosexuality myself, so I never tested the other side of the coin. I finally left the relationship when she and I started talking politics too much. It is different for guys. If you were boinking a guy it would be cheating....
2006-07-10 07:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by John Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...wrong on your part for doing it. Even if you drank 10 bottles of tequila. If you have no tolerance and do stupid things drunk, then you either shouldnt be drinking so much or shouldnt be in a serious relationship. Wouldnt you be hurt if you walked in and saw your boyfriend having sex in bed with another chick in YOUR bed?? That's not only disresepectful but its gross and now he'll always hold it against you. He'll forgive you and be pissed off at himself for allowing it to happen. Things will never be the same again. And when its over between the two of you, he's gonna have low self-esteem, and trust problems. AND for good girls like me and many others who dont screw around, it will be hard for us to mend their heart and clean em up to try and prove that we arent like girls like that. SHAME SHAME SHAME. This is a reason why some guys go bad and become careless and treat girls like crap. Tell me, was it worth it? And if it wasnt then if your boyfriend is a good guy, you messed up something that coulda been more. If he wasnt such a good guy, then screw it. Maybe he wasnt giving you enough to satisfaction. You made a mistake and things happen. Understandable but I think you crossed borders that shoulda never been walked by. Jeez at some point I like to think you knew what you were doing. Didnt reality hit when you looked up at the guy and saw that he wasnt your boyfriend? Or was it the part when your boyfriend caught you? Just my opinion. I have seen this happen like 3 times already. Never ends up pretty...Good Luck.
2006-07-10 07:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You cheated on him and you might as well accept the blame and see what can be done to ensure you two can still remain a couple. The best possible solution to any problem between couples, is to put yourself in their shoes and look at it through their eyes. Almost everytime you will see that the situation would bother you just as much as it bothers him or her. Good luck.
2006-07-10 07:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Not Important 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-10 07:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had sex with anyone other than your boyfriend, then yes that would be considered cheating. Whether it be male or female that you had sex with. If you do that when you drink tequilla, lay off the liquor.
2006-07-10 07:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say "No, you didn't" Alcohol does do some weird things to your body and give you some urging feelings. At least it wasn't some guy putting his tally wacker in you. Instead of him feeling cheated, he should at least ask if the two of you would be willing to have a 3 some and/or maybe watch the both of you. Any guys would love to do that and most of them it is their wildest fanasty.
2006-07-10 07:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did!! Some men would normally like the thought of their girl hookin up with another girl, but some men are so in love with you they would hurt if it happens. What you have done is to hurt his feelings and damaged his pride. You have some serious damage control to do girly!!
2006-07-10 07:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are. Booze isn't an excuse really. If you loose control then you shouldn't drink. I think I'd leave my girlfriend if she was with another woman. You're bi and you were being intimate with someone else.
2006-07-10 07:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jonas_83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you cheated no matter whether it was with a woman, man or animal. He is hurt and has every reason to be. Alchohal is not a excuse.
2006-07-10 07:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋