Guys, Why do you say women are confusing?

Answer 1

From my experience, men speak in concrete terms while women speak in abstract terms that have hidden meanings men are supposed to decode. When a man says "isn't it a nice day" - he means exactly that and nothing more. When a women says it she might mean "it is a nice day" but also might mean "I would like to go the beach" or "lets go out somewhere". Men find this extremely confusing and feel the women should have just said she wanted to go to the beach in the first place. Like wise the woman, thinking that men also speak in code, will try to decypher the "nice day" comment, when in fact there is nothing to decode

Answer 2

Lots of reasons.
1. Your social in wonderfully strict heirarchies that no man will ever understand. Ex: Cool girls click from Bad girls click with some in both clicks and relative status of leader to low end runt.
... Men. Confidence and the ability to threaten physically is the be all end all of the heriarchy.
2. You think in emotions. we think in passions.
3. Your unconsiously always testing friends, family and lovers. Men judge once in a while at significant events.. Women never cease testing...
4. Women's prioties revolve around emotional self. Men around self respect. simliar but VASTLY different objectives.

Answer 3

Well, in my personal opinion, it is because they are. Many women i have known or have dated tend to give a lot of mixed signals. They may flirt with you at work or outside but then you ask them out and they say "umm... i don't think so". It is very hard to tell what a woman is thinking/feeling. Men are much easier to understand.

Answer 4

Because it's that double-speak crap most indulge in. Saying one thing but really meaning another. When we figure out what you want, you then turn around and tell us that wasn't what you wanted. Also these little 'tests' you put us through really piss us off. If we wanted to be 'tested' we would go to school.

Answer 5

cause woman cant even make up thier own mind and when they do they change it 2 minutes later. so how can we know what you want when you woman cant make up ur own minds or stick with your first decision. and woman are wayyyyyy too emotional sometimes over the littlest things. that's why

Answer 6

we never know what u want, like this question...what exactly do u want us to say...that ur a crzy bi ch tw at that we want to have our way with....or that we love u soo much and u arent confusing...just tell us things clearly

Answer 7

Because they have a genetic disposition to ruin men's lives.

Answer 8

my husband says because we contradict everything we say.