what do you look for in a guy that you about to date now and what would you wear on that first date???and after the date would you kiss him or makeout?
2006-07-10 06:30:47 · 27 answers · asked by henry_arnold2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) What I look for in a man is intelligence & honesty.
2) What I would wear on the first date depends on where we have decided to go. I dress for the occasion.
3) Most of the time I do not like to be kissed after the first date, especially if it is someone that I did not know that well before going out or if we did not even get a chance to get to know each other during the date (like if we just went to the movies or something & did not even have a chance to talk). If I knew them a while before the date then I usually do not mind being kissed & I would probably enjoy it more.
2006-07-10 07:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to catch my attention in a guy is his looks. No matter how attractive he is though, his personality has to click with mine.
The first date should be casual, pressure-free and relaxed. No expectations of the other person... just spend time getting to know each other better.
What I would wear depends on where we are going. Something cute, a little flirty, but not trashy. Maybe a sundress, or jeans with a trendy top. I think the guy should dress appropriately... jeans & nice top... whatever you're comfy wearing and makes you feel good about your appearence.
I don't like when a guy thinks a kiss or making out afterwords is expected. If the date was an absolute hit and I want to see the guy again, I'll kiss him (or whatever). If I'm not sure about him, he gets a "thanks & good night".
2006-07-10 13:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have 2 say is I look 4 mysterious guys, i like a good mystery, I mean I want to figure them out. Clothes-don't wear anything slutty, wear something comfortable, but hot. U want to impress him not get him to have sex with u. First dates are kind of hard, so maybe a peck on the lips or check, because if u makeout it would make u seem u r desperate and we girls don't want that. U can say u r into him, but also don't go to deep.
2006-07-10 13:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to look for in a guy? Every woman has a different personality so she will be attracted to different things. Some women look for someone with a great sense of humor that will make her laugh. Another will like the suave, type that will spoil her. Other girls are attracted to very confident guys that are almost full of themselves. I could go on and on. The point is when you go on a date the best thing to do is put your best qualities forward and if you're compatible then you'll both have a good time, and if she has a good time you'll probably end up making out at the end of the night :-)
2006-07-10 13:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't tell a lot of things by just a first date. So, I would look for someone polite (opening dooring, pulling out chairs). I would have to be physically attracted to him at least a little. I always look at the eyes first so pick out a shirt that brings out your eye color. And it would depend on how the date went to get a kiss on the cheek or lips. But I would NOT have a make out session on the first date because that would make the women look like a huzzy. I would wait for a few more dates and see how they go.
2006-07-10 13:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian Salgado Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what anyone says looks are very important but i like a guy with mystery and to dress the part. We like bad boys, and thats the truth. I do kiss on the first date because to me if you cant kiss good there is no second date.
2006-07-10 13:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i look for if a guy is sweet an has a good since of humor an wont hurt u. i wood wear something cute that looks nice like a one sleeved shirt an short shorts, if i knew the guy i wood makeout with him i have toknow the guy first
2006-07-10 13:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably kiss but not make out. I look for a guy that is sharp. Nice looking. Hair combed or brushed. Nice clothes. It also depends on what you are doing. If you are going to the movies dress casual but with a nice shirt and clean shoes.
BRUSH YOUR TEETH if you expect some action. LOL.
2006-07-10 13:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Cierra Janece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woudl want a guy to be: thoughtful, caring, deep, sensitive to my thoughts, smart, kind, interesting, intellectual, insightful, loving, and sweet. I guess the two main things would be smart and kind, because I would want to be able to discuss anything with him, and I would want him to bring me flowers for no reason except for his love for me.
And the beauty factor- well, I personally don't think anyone can be ugly- hot, yes. but not ugly. So his appearance, as long as he was well dressed, is fine with me.
I would wear casual clothes- jeans, and a T-shirt, or maybe a skirt and a T-shirt. Nothing special. And no, I wouldn't want it to be SUPER revealign or anything- I don't want him to be tempted by my body, but by my mind, by my soul.
And maybe, for my first date, I would leave without the kiss- just to make sure he liked me for WHO I am, not WHAT I am. I would deny him the kiss, even though I woudl leave him - if he appealed to me- with a promise of a second date.
And maayybe, if I though he was worth it, I might kiss him.
maybe.
=)
2006-07-10 13:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweateredpanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor, honesty, committment, care, intelligence. I'd wear something simple, jeans and nice top. After the date, I prefer a hug or a kiss.
2006-07-10 13:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥<ŦĦØΛ>♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋