How would you make it up to someone if you stood him up on purpose just to make that person mad and you do like them little bit not a whole alot and you know in your heart you dont want to nor have any future with the guy.
Please dont tell me have sex and all that getting physical stuff.
A sorry card would be nice?right?
2006-07-10 06:13:27 · 32 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there. You are very confusing........Because
(1) you stood him on purpose to make him mad
(2) why would he be mad if this was a to be the first date and nothing is going on at the present time
(3)You like this guy but see no future,.........how do you know there is no future if you havent been around him
(4) No future..........are you looking for a husband in this guy or was it to be just a plain date ?
(5) No sorry card please.......and STOP being a tease and stop playing with peoples emotions. Its not good.
If it was to be plain date then gop have fun and forget about it. If you are looking for a husband in this guy and know its not to be then go on and stop leading him on and being a tease. If you really want and care for him, buy a "ROSE" go see him and tell him that you are sorry for being a tease.......remember "be honest". Ask him out this time and be careful because if you tell him and ask him out his expection level will now be many times higher then before and he will be sort of expecting things.........man, you are confusing..............(I mean it).....
2006-07-11 01:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
Are you sure you like this person? If you are not interested in him, then quit scheduling a meeting with him and standing him up. You sound real wishy-washy about the whole thing. A card would be fine, I guess. You should take him out to lunch or something, though. That would make up for what you missed, (you do OWE him, since you missed it on purpose, and that wasn't very nice) That way, you don't have to worry about giving him sex, and it's much better than a sorry ol' card.
2006-07-10 06:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you certainly stuck your foot in it, didn't you?
I would set up a coffee date ... and KEEP it. During this, I would be frank and tell him straight out that you're sorry for having stood him up. Make up a plausible excuse (only if he doesn't know the real nature of the stand-up), or if he is aware of your sneakiness, apologize for that as well. Then get right in it, and tell him you're really not feeling a connection, and don't want to lead him on anymore, because it makes you feel guilty/bad/sad/mean/whatever. You're directness on the matter might make him respect you and you might find a friend or you might never hear from the guy again.
2006-07-10 06:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time with this person,if you really liked him you would never have stood him up.It was very immature of you to do that.you do not sound ready to be in a relationship,because you should not act or treat a person like that.treat others how you wish to be treated yourself.learn respect.never mind a card,tell this person to their face you are sorry.you need to do some growing up,I am telling you this for your own good.sometimes in life men/boys can get angry at being made a fool of,and things could end up blowing up in your face.take care
2006-07-10 06:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to them and be honest. Don't tell them you're confused if you're not. Don't tell them that you'd rather go out a different time if you don't. If you want to be their friend then MEAN it and take the steps to actually *be* a friend, not just use them as someone to talk to when you're bored.
A simple apology, and tell them what you want, whether its to cut all ties, or just be acquaintences. Yeah you'll probably feel a little guilty, and it will probably hurt the other person, but better to hurt them now with the truth, then to let them believe a lie.
2006-07-10 06:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by imnoangel325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Sex is not the answer. A card might be nice but communication is the key to any relationship. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel. He may forgive you and things go great. He may not but such is life. Just be honest and don't give more than you should.
2006-07-10 06:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. A sorry card would be lame. Call him and tell him that you feel bad for standing him up. Don't tell him you did it because you wanted to make him mad. Just appologise. "I'm sorry for not making it last friday, and I just wanted to let you know that I'm not interested in dating anymore. Maybe we can hang out as friends next weekend though. Call me if you are free on Saturday okay?" That way if your feelings change you haven't completely shut the guy out and hurt his feelings too bad.
2006-07-10 06:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a card would not be enough. You need to be mature enough to stand face to face and tell him the truth. You are sorry for your actions and you see no future for you and him.
Put yourself in his shoes and see what it would take for you to forgive him if he treated you that way.
2006-07-10 06:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply tell them that you like them and everything just not the way they want you to it is alwawys best to talk from your heart one on one not through a piece of paper all wil be ok
2006-07-10 06:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a card would be nice and you can add a kiss and a hug there 2 so you can make it a better apolegy(kiss not mouth in the cheek)
2006-07-10 06:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by lola :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋