I'm really good friends with this guy, we've been out on a few dates and they've gone well, but I'm not sure what he thinks of the situation as he doesn't seem to give anything away, either on the dates or afterwards. Do I ask him what he thinks or will it spoil the friendship if he says he wants it to stay as that - friends?
2006-07-10 06:11:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Starting a relationship with a friend is tricky. First you must ask yourself...is the risk worth the reward? There is a very real chance that in the attempt (if he doesn't want to) you could loose his friendship (maybe not permanently though). Be sure first. The reward is a good one though...the best relationships begin when the couple were friends first...it's an intimacy based on truth, unlike when you date and people pretend things.
My opinion...go for it...it's worth it...and if he is a good friend...he will be again if it doesn't work out.
2006-07-10 06:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences I've learned NEVER ever date a friend. But friendships mean more to me than relationships. You need to ask yourself that same question because if you date and then break up the friendship will NEVER be the same. There may not even be one
2006-07-10 06:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it I'm surprised you haven't already as you Welsh women have a great sense of humour and are full of confidence good luck.
2006-07-10 06:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by pig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're together, undress a bit and give him the chance to take things further.
2006-07-10 06:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a little risk, don't invest everything yet, just see how it goes... Worst case, he only wants friendship.
2006-07-10 06:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by jamn5684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does he ask u on a date if he does then he might like u. u should wait for him to say it or have someone ask for u
2006-07-10 06:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the guy, let him make the first move in this instance. He maybe a little shy about it and doesn't know how you would take it.
2006-07-10 06:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he is not gay and thinks you guys are just friends because that is strange that a man gives no signals...I say ask him
2006-07-10 06:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by manita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!!! i am in a very simlear sitiation with my friend! go for it.. in know its hard but take the chance.. listen to me i should really take some of my own advice.. awh but if it was only that simple... i am to scared to make any move!!!!!xxx
2006-07-10 06:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXX that's a tough one, but maybe he's thinking the same thing about you. Talk to him. Take it slow. Don't put him on the spot with questions. You don't want to chase him away. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-10 06:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋