For about a year, I've liked one of my male friends. I revealed this to him last summer and he promptly rejected me saying, "I think you're wonderful and you're sexy but there are just certain lines we shouldn't cross."
He is 6 years older than me and I know how much he prefers dating older women. We remain friends now, even after the rejection, but it's difficult for me to let go of how I feel.
I've tried showing him that I can be supportive and affectionate, hoping he would see that I have something special to offer but it hasn't changed his mind about dating me.
I don't want to go another year longing for him and I don't want this stress to ruin our friendship. It's difficult for me to let go when he calls me a "kindred spirit." This whole experience has caused me to wonder the difference between that and soul mates. Anyone know?
How do I get over him? I've already tried dating two other men and that was fun for about 5 months but nothing long term came from that.
2006-07-10 06:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by WriterGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Letting go is not going to be easy. It's probably just as akward for him, as he knows you feel this way. Try to spend an extended period apart, explain to him you can't change how you feel, and you need time to find some peace of soul.
2006-07-10 06:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. it really easy let me tell you that this man isn't your man because u are so much for him
any way they are many men
if he didn't love you don't try to say it more to him or he could use you
if he don't like u let him alone just be a good friend
not every one can be your boyfriend
don't stress your self because things go on when they should go on
if it doesn't work it doesn't and that the end
you are a person with many good thinks
what I'll say u it's the most important :
if he is 6 years older than u ,believe me, that he know many thinks more than u and some of the things u love to do he wont want to do because he did it before
just imagine a 15th guy with a a girl of 9 years!
u can't force him to be with u
2006-07-10 13:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have to end the friendship.
2006-07-10 13:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by rmadd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of tequila and crying
2006-07-10 13:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT
2006-07-10 13:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋