and i meet someone allready but he too just got out of one should we try and see what happens he is really great or is it to soon???
2006-07-10 06:01:57 · 42 answers · asked by southerncherry_17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with your heart, many times you may find that one somebody you have looked for all of your life and let them pass you by because most of the people here have told you to do so, however who says they are right, you will know if it feels right, and do you want to spend the rest of your life saying what if? you could miss out on a great life if you pass this by, however I do agree you should give each other space and take things slow, don't move in together right away, and spend a few nights a week apart, you have to build trust for each other, if he truley cares about you he will be there for you, if he can't hang with this plan it shows he did not want the same long lasting relationship you are looking for. good luck
2006-07-10 06:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by citisat 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I was down my dreams were wearing thin
When youre lost where do you begin
My heart always seemed to drift from day to day
Looking for the love that never came my way
Then you smiled and I reached out to you
I could tell you were lonely too
One look then it all began for you and me
The moment that we touched I knew that there would be
(chorus) two less lonely people in the world
And its gonna be fine
Out of all the people in the world
I just cant believe youre mine
In my life where everything was wrong
Something finally went right
Now theres two less lonely people
In the world tonight
Just to think what I might have missed
Looking back how did I exist
I dreamed, still I never thought Id come this far
But miracles come true, I know cause here we are
(chorus)
Tonight I fell in love with you
And all the things I never knew
Seemed to come to me somehow
Baby, love is here and now theres
(repeat chorus)
2006-07-10 06:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by n9flyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to TAKE IT SLOW. There's nothing wrong with meeting someone right away. It will actually help you get over your ex faster. But just don't jump right it. If you really like this guy, take things super slow (like a turtle) and see where they go. Most of all, look out for you! Best of luck!
2006-07-10 06:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. I've just ended a 4 year relationship, and I don't think I will be able to date for awhile. My ex however seems to be ready to move on already, and we've only been apart a week. It's different for everyone, just remember, if you both just got out of relationships, you feel compassion towards each other, so what you feel right now may not be what you think it is.
2006-07-10 06:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get thrown off a horse, the only way you will ride again, is to get right back on. Maybe not the best analogy, but don't let someone pass by, just because you don't think you've been separated from your ex long enough. Opportunity knocks, you've gotta be willing to open the door.
2006-07-10 06:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with checking him out. Take things slow, don't be in such a hurry for things. But there is no reason why you and him can't have fun together, especially if you like one another. This opportunity make not make itself available again, so when opportunity knocks.....open the door. Have a great time with him, best of luck to you..........
2006-07-10 06:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in taking your time and getting to know this guy. Just don't jump right into bed. That is when being on the rebound can become a problem. Good luck.
2006-07-10 06:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is tooooooooooooooooo soon. Try and form a friend ship and when both of you are completely ready then maybe go for it. But rushing into something tooo soon can add to the stress of the break-up and really get to you!
2006-07-10 06:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know the answer...just cause it happened quickly doesn't make it wrong....however, i would spend time getting to know him before making a serious commitment...sometimes it all seems so great because of what we just came out of...kinda like we're looking at the person w/rose colored glasses on....he could totally be as great as you think....pursue it, but give it time....keep your eyes open for things you may not like.....protect your heart enough to keep it from being hurt, but have fun and enjoy him as well....just have a good balance and it should work out...good luck!
2006-07-10 06:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will both be the rebound people and it won't last, but it might help you both get over the previous relationship. Just don't expect too much or put your heart in it all the way.
2006-07-10 06:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by all_my_armour_falling_down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋