A friend called me Saturday at about 3 am to come lay down with him, and I went, we cuddled, and he was saying stuff to me and I love you slipped out, this is not the first time it has happened. But he always tries to cover it up.
He calls me his girly and tells me that everytime I am around he wants to touch me, and hold on to me and he likes spending time with me.
But he doesnt call when he says hes going to....odd huh?
What does all of this mean? And why exactly isnt he acting on anything if he does like me? Some one help please
He has no other girls in his life besides his mom and his sister.....i mean female friends, but nothing more then a hello are exchanged between them
2006-07-10 05:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, really there are no other girls...i hang out with all the same people he does.
2006-07-10 06:06:59 · update #1
He's probably in love with you, that's true. but maybe he has some mom or sister issues that make him afraid of commitment...it's an Oedipal thing. The bad news is, unless you pass the "seal of approval" or are in tune with his mom's or sis' beliefs, culture and ways of life, you'll never get past the booty-call stage. I've been in that situation, we were a couple for a year,and he dumped me completely out of the blue, for a woman 3 years his senior, ugly and rude (even to him!!), but she came highly recommended by his sister. That's just the way mama's boys are, and only very few change...
2006-07-10 06:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by cleo715 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time to test him... Give him a call at " 0 dark 30" and tell him you need to chat. Have him come over and sit in the dark.. not sexual .. just have a few items to chat about ... something going on that his point of view would be helpful on. maybe a work issue or a relationship issue with a realitive .. then turn the conversation to a more sensual note and see where he goes .. have it on your schedule instead of his .. if he still reacts as he has in the past you may learn a good secret from him .. if he blows you off .. you will have your answer ..
2006-07-10 09:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by SigmundS of Yew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a booty call on Saturday! Look at the time of the call. He says these things because he believes this is what you wanna hear. He'll say anything to get to the booty. Look the way ot sounds he has some feeling for you. It maybe lust, but that's about it. Until he starts doing the things he claims, then it's just booty for him. He has other women in his life, you don't know anout them.
2006-07-10 06:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of the reasons he could be doing this is that he is sure of what he feels for you but he may want you to show him your feelings. What I mean is that he might be waiting for a move from you that will let him know how you feel for him. Since your feelings for him may not be clear he may not want to tell you exactly what feels for you because you may reject him..laugh at him...ridicule him...whatever...
Instead of assuming anything you may want to talk to him straight out and tell him what hes been doing, if you like it tell him if you don't then also let him know. You will never know for sure until you talk to him and you are clear, until then you can either assume or think you know when you dont really have a clue...I suggest talk to they guy instead of wondering why he doesnt call you...like I said he may be afraid of telling you how he feel and is waiting for something on your part that will let him know how you feel.
2006-07-10 06:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a head case...and what's your problem going over there? He has nothing to do with you until he wants to develop some sexual feelings. This guy is either nuts or a predator.
Ought o' here, yesterday!
2006-07-10 06:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is having trouble expressing his emotions. He could have intimacy issues. Almost like he wants to love you but doesn't know how. Or he's afraid to progress in the relationship because he doesn't want to risk your friendship.
2006-07-10 06:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being bored. Be-careful he might want more than cuddle. But why did u go over at 3 am ?????
2006-07-10 06:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to young to me, play with boy's, you get boy's. Find a man that know what he wants, an not afraid to say it! Game's are for children
2006-07-10 06:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is afraid to have any kind of relationship but that he does like you in that way. He might be afriad of commitment.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 06:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has someone else on the down low
2006-07-10 06:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋