2006-07-10 05:53:54 · 30 answers · asked by LILBDR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are comfortable with the situation, and are a mature adult, then you are ok. It sounds like you aren't comfortable with it, so I think you are showing you made a mistake.
2006-07-10 05:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too fast for whom?
You may not be moving fast enough from his point of view.
There are risks associated with sex, both emotional and physical, some of
which can be mitigated by putting it off for awhile. Most of these risks have
to do with trust (What makes you think he won't pass STDs on to you,
what would happen if you got pregnant).
You are the only who has a chance of honestly answering these
questions for yourself. Do you think he'd stand by you if you got
pregnant? Would you want him to? Remember, it is a possibility,
reguardless of what precautions you take.
Since it is fully possible for someone to have an STD and not know
it, how would you feel about getting tested together?
If it bothers you to think about these things, then, YES, you're moving
way too fast. Responsible people look at events in context. To say
that these issues won't effect you is to ignore that which is going on
around you.
What are the risks? What are the benefits?
If you think your continued relationship requires you to have sex with
him, then you need to ask yourself if that is really the relationship you want.
On the other hand, you may both be smok'n hot, be disease free and
want to get pregnant.
Can't tell from here...
2006-07-10 06:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's all relative though. If you ask me I say no, because I don't think you need to wait a life time to sleep with your partner before marriage. But if you ask Jane Doe from the South, who's daddy is a preacher, she'll tell you your damned for lying bed with another man before you've given your vows to each other and the Lord.
You're not moving too fast, in my opinion.
2006-07-10 05:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And you know it also because you are asking this question. But you don't have to continue doing it. Tell him that you are having second thoughts and feel as if you all moved to fast.
2006-07-10 05:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you believed you were ready then the answer is no. Only you know if you rushed into a situation. Just make sure your practicing safe sex.
2006-07-10 05:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by RiffRaff524 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you know you are or you would not even ask. If you move that fast, expect him to get bored fast & move on.
2006-07-10 05:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're already having sex -- don't you think it's a little late to be asking this question now. Should've thought about it before you went ahead and had sex with him.
2006-07-10 07:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by hope this helps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u move as fast as you feel like going. if you have to ask this question however you weren't to sure about doing it therefore yes you did don't do something .
2006-07-10 06:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by djkrazy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point in that. After sex. What you got.
2006-07-10 05:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by RONNIEKAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes gurl..u movin 2 fast!!...just been wit him 4 3 weeks..not even a month!!!..damn gurl u need 2 slow down cuz u aint now if all he wants 2 get 4rm u is just sex!...nd if u tell him u wanna slow down nd he dont understanf u then he aint da guy 4 u...cuz guys r meant 2 understand u,care,listen nd respect yo feelings!!..so if u wanna slow down..slow down!!..cuz its just 3 weeks!!..do u really know him well?...can u write more than a page bout how u much u know bout him?..yup yup!!..datz all i gotta say!...just b careful gurl!!..cuz no one wanna get hurt!
2006-07-10 06:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by yankeecrazychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋