Do u guy's have any idea what a turn on it is when the woman takes the initiative for a change hmmmm!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 05:31:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it makes you feel wanted and not some lech who wants sex every night.
2006-07-10 05:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women make the first move all of the time - men just need to notice how they are doing so. Women dress a certain way, look at a man a certain way and use all of their womanly ways to charm a man into thinking they are making the first move. I think women from the prior generation, when women were taught never to make the first move, learned how to go about getting a man's attention, and that is about the sexiest thing a woman can do to this day. Pay attention to the woman. She is giving you signals like crazy if she is a sexy lady!
2006-07-10 05:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We usually wait for the man to make the first move because then we know for sure that he likes us. I know both men and women has a fear of rejection, but I think girls have it worse than guys, especially when they're younger. When I got older, I got over my fear of rejection and started making the first move. But usually, once a guy makes the first move, the girl does a whole lot more, if you know what I mean.
2006-07-10 05:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
traditionally throughout our culture it is considered the Man's job to take the initiative in every aspect of a relationship from courting through dating and eventually perhaps marriage. A man's emotions allow him to take charge and the woman expects it from him. Even in the family environment the Father is thought of as the leader. In addition the female needs our protection of her physical and emotional well being and it is our proud duty to do so.
2006-07-10 05:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by inaluvinmood_m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that way, you get the pleasure of possibly getting and feeling rejected while she just gets to sit back, play the prize, get an ego boost, and not be accountable for anything. Isn't it just great to be a guy these days?
2006-07-10 05:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do I do!!! but unfortunatly so many girl dont so when i get with a guy and they see how aggressive i am and can be they arent used to it.It turns out then that they never make a move becasue they know i will. It is nice to have a guy who can be aggressive too though.
2006-07-10 05:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by bubblyblonde002200 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very gud question i think it time 4 them to understand that sometime we r afraid too and we rely on them to make the first move....
we live in a a modern world with no differences between sexex so plz it time to change
2006-07-10 05:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by secret &trade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think whoever wants to should make the first move. There are no rule books in dating .. that I know of :)
2006-07-10 05:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For example... this guy keeps telling me that I need to "make a move" on him and start something for once... so I finally do and rejected. But no more than five minutes later he's tryin to start something. Yeah, I think not.
2006-07-10 05:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women want confidence
approach them with confidence as though they already belong to you instead of whining that they don't make the first move
2006-07-10 05:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by whoisgod71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just tradition...but personally i LOVE being the one to make the first move...i like when he looks surprised/turned on
2006-07-10 05:36:11 · answer #11 · answered by Hypnotiq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋