Um we are both seniors for the next year. I'm a decent looking guy. She know i like her somehow. When i see her in the hallway i freeze up and i cant even say Hi as she walks by me. she is the only girl that i have ever gotten shy around in my life. And i dont know why it is stopping me. I realy dont know what to do. Can Someone please help me?
2006-07-10 05:23:48 · 24 answers · asked by Shadow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't tell her you love her. you'll scare her. its not love.
make eye contact with her and smile. if she smiles back she's either being nice or is interested. there's only one way to know for sure. don't let fear control your actions, if you do you'll always regret not asking her out.
what's the worst that can happen?
2006-07-10 05:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a wee bit of advice, Don't don't don't don't and oh did i mention don't
You aint even going out with her, what do you think she will think if someone who isnt going out with her tells her that they are in love with her?
Its going to freak her out and scunner any chance the two of you had.
and what you are feeling probably isnt even love anyway, it may just be lust of infactuation.
The best thing you can do is ask her out and then if she says no you know where you stand without having made a fool of yourself and if she says yes then there you go, you can take it from there.
By the way im not being peeimistic here, and i dont want you feeling that im trying to put you down, but by telling her you are in love with her could lead to a lot more problems,
It is always easier to play it safe and take it from there.
What would you rather do?
Jump in head first and risk drowning?
Or test the water with a toe to make sure its safe?
Aplly that logic to this problem and you can see where youre answer lies.
Anyway, no matter what you decide to do, good luck with and remember if it works out it always was and if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be.
Good luck
2006-07-10 05:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Alistair B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most of the other posters. Just try to say "Hi" if you see her. I know, its tough..I was pretty shy in high school too, but at the very least smile. This will be your last year...and you certainly don't want to regret anything. Better to express your feelings now than live in uncertainty afterwards. Think of it that way.
Yeah, leave her a note, but more specifically, post it to her locker if you know where it is. I think she will like it..especially if she likes you..even if she doesn't..she will be at least polite if she is a nice girl. Even if she says she doesn't like you, it is better to know now than later. Good luck.
2006-07-10 05:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just pop up and tell her you love her....that could scare her off for good. Just say "Hi" and start talking to her. Develop a friendship first, and give her a chance to get to know you. It will also give you a chance relax and stop being so shy around her. The best and most long-lasting relationships are born out of good friendships.
2006-07-10 05:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically tell her precisely what you in common words typed! heavily, i'm efficient she needs an similar element! If she suggested you she loved you, then tell her you're regardless of the truth that at a loss for words yet you want to take a even as yet tell her you want a severe courting which comprise her too! lacking her is a demonstration that you're falling for her. basically tell her the way you journey, and do it instantly!
2016-11-06 03:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's pretty obvious that your shy. lol.. but to keep that from her write her a cute note. say something like..
hey .. its ( ) and ive had my eye on you for a while, as you know. I think that it would be great if maybe sometime we could get together.. i heard that ( this movie ) is great and its playing at the ( ) theater now. wanna try?
then spray it with some cologne..
if she does say yes, hopefully it will give you a little more pride and you wont be so shy.
2006-07-10 05:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are shy that ceates a problem but ...not an unsolvable one!
so you could easily leave a note for her somewhere,
or if you want to be creavite that you couls spell it in rose petals or something cute like that.... i don't know if you need another idea just email me.
2006-07-10 05:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like Jack says, a note would be great. Make it something very
original though that will really get her attention, you know, cut words out of newspapers and paste them together, put a flower in it, whatever. If she likes it, she'll probably like you, and once you know that- your shyness will disappear real fast.
2006-07-10 05:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by smiling and making eye contact when you see her. See how things go from there. Take a deep breath, relax your shoulders, and let your eyes show your feelings. She may not respond, but you'll have made a positive move to show you exist.
2006-07-10 05:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't even talk to her, DO NOT tell her you love her. You'll just freak her out. You've got a long way to go before you get to things like that.
2006-07-10 05:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by T.A. Rossi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋