Ive been working in the Department as a secretary/admin for a year and I find this lecturer (whos very hot at 40 with kids) very attractive. There is definitely sexual chemistry between us. How should I approach him, that I just want sex from him? I know he finds me attractive by the way he gazes at me. Hes also quite a shy guy and very intelligent and articulate.
I am a University graduate with a degree so Im not dumb and am fully aware of the repucussions. I cannot help nature - this attraction is really intense. I want this man so much (just one passionate night of sex). I would just like to know how to go about asking him....By the way - Im a Scorpio ;)
2006-07-10 04:36:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... what's your Dean's name - don't tell me it's Flip Wilson ...
2006-07-14 08:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he's married right? Well go for it I guess as long as you don't mind your husband down the road doing the same thing to you....because what you do has a way of coming back on you when you least expect it. Not to mention that you'll be the one is left with the whore label and looking for another job if something goes wrong, I am also educated & I did this years ago and it got me absolutley nowhere!....Good luck :-)
2006-07-10 12:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, this guy is married with kids and you want to have sex with him, girl you asking for grief do you really think just once would be enough and what if just once was enough for his wife to find out,it would be very selfish of you, find your own guy
2006-07-10 11:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the situation (very cliched by the way) not the man you're in love with. Get over yourself and find a new job.
2006-07-10 12:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u'r situation is quite hard so i say like everyone else ask him over a drink or at a party
or at a romantic dinner at a posh restaurant
it can work wonders
and i can see that u want this man very much
good luck.
2006-07-10 12:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by vetwannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 23 why dont ya come ask me!!! No its not worth asking just make a move if seems right but i know bout trouble that can be caused when kids involved think of them or buy a dildo n think all the dirty thoughts ya want!!!
2006-07-10 11:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by craig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be a ***** then go ask him, but bare in mind that its gonna come back to you, maybe not in this life time but you will definitely pay for it if you go have sex with this MARRIED man, and when your married i hope your husband goes and has sex with some other woman, then you'll know how it feels!
2006-07-10 11:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you will only end up hurt,besides how would you feel in 20 years time if you're husband had a fling with a younger woman!
2006-07-10 11:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by TAFF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
Don't throw the poor man's life into turmoil.
I can almost guarantee it will lead to unpleasant complications and you will wish you hadn't done it... That's if he says yes.
If he turns you down, it will be highly embarressing for all concerned.
Find someone else.
2006-07-10 11:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by fiend_indeed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO, you will hundred percent regret it afterwards. How will u beable to look him in the eye and continue working there? It will be horrible!
Things like that are always better when u imagine them then they are in real life.
Plus......he has kids, wouldn't u feel really guilty?
2006-07-10 11:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Robin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about asking him out for a drink after work, work your magic on him and go from there. Have fun and good luck!
2006-07-10 11:41:36 · answer #11 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋