We have only been together for about a month and already we are having difficulty finding time for eachother. Also we seem to be clashing on some fairly important issues (ie. he can be a huge chauvanist and I have some fairly strong feminist beliefs). I am not sure if I should try harder or maybe it is just not meant to be. Normally I wouldn't bother but there is something special about him and I worry that ending it may be there wrong decision. Any opinions? (And sidenote: We are BOTH Leo's.. I don't think that helps! lol)
2006-07-10 04:18:55 · 33 answers · asked by Chloe McIntosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over when you start to question if it's over.
2006-07-10 04:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by April M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to argue in the beginning of a relationship, because you learn a lot about eachother. Don't think of it as clashing, think of it as a learning expirience. A healthy couple needs these sort of things.
If there is something special about him, hold onto him for a little while longer. If it ends, and you two never seem to find eachother through agreements or time... then it wasn't meant to be.
Making time for eachother will be hard, but keep trying and look at the bigger picture.
2006-07-10 04:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I'll get right down to it... remember before you two started dating, there was this flirty type of foreplay... nothing physical, just those little special things you did for eachother or ways you looked at eachother... when those things don't happen anymore, the relationship is over... even if you decide to drag it on for months or even years later, there is no love to be found there. That something special about him is most likely the absence of the bad quality of your previous boyfriend.
2006-07-10 04:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Phunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a feminist and a chauvanist usually wind eachover up for the sake of it, either accept your going to argue all the time or train him up to be a boring lapdog who agrees with everything you say, if he's of strong character get your mum to help it may take some time,or he may turn to drinking heavily as you break his soul, good luck
2006-07-10 04:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by xscottydog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well chloe it seems to me that the realationship is not going to work the first few months of the realationship is the best part getting to know each other and should be fun and if your not hitting it of now then theres a possibility you never will...but if you think that this realationship is worth trying harder why dont you talk to your partner and see what happens from their remember opposites attract
2006-07-10 05:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by nikki h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think if your already having disagreements then you two just arent well suited. the first few months of a relationship should be like the 'honeymoon' period, you should want to see each other all the time and you still be all loved up etc.so im sorry but if after only a month your already arguing then i think its time to move on.
2006-07-10 04:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is over when trust ends... You simply do't trust the other person. Also, when you start ignoring the person.
Ideally speaking when you don't often recall your lover on a busy day, you can say that love's downfall has already started
2006-07-10 04:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by jumpstart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st Clue: The sheriff serves you with divorce papers and a restraining order.
2nd Clue: A Hitman has been trying to kill you for three weeks and your lovers bank account is suddenly short several thousand dollars.
3rd Clue: Your always horney, can't keep his hands off you, lover is now just too busy to come over for drinks and a bj.
2006-07-10 04:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you will find someone who you agree with on everything? A relationship is a give and take from both sides. I agree that certain major decisions are needed but you decide how major it is..........and whether your frienship is worth the compromise.
God bless you
2006-07-10 04:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by skot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds harsh but i think its over. If after just a month these things are happening there really is no hope. You guys are still supposed to be in the honeymoon period!
2006-07-10 04:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Katty83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are literally billions of people. Whatever it is you like about this guy, there's another one out there just like him but with all the "good" qualities, and none of the crap.
Do yourself a favour. Drop this guy and go find the "better" one!
Good luck!
2006-07-10 04:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋