Ok me and my ex broke up like a mounth ago and he does have a new girlfriend and all but me and him r still really close and i don't have a prob with that. But 1 day i had a little get together w/girlfriends and she came as a guest with another friend of mine. As i was going to the kitchen to get drinks she was in there saying to a friend that shes just using my ex cuz he has money(ITS TRUE)and also because he close to her crush!I wann kno should i tell him? I don't wanna b the nosie exgirlfriend :(
2006-07-10 04:08:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we still go out to like movies and at times he keep tellin me how guys that i talk to r lame and how i need better
2006-07-10 04:16:48 · update #1
we have talked bout getting back together but she calims that she is in luv wit him ( BS) and its only been 3 weeks for them going on a month!!!!
2006-07-10 04:20:52 · update #2
he always complains bout her!
2006-07-10 04:22:53 · update #3
I DUMPED HIM 4 CHEATIN ON ME .......WITH HUR
2006-07-10 04:25:18 · update #4
Don't tell him. He'll think you're making it up because you're a bitter ex. He'll find out on his own.
2006-07-10 04:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sticky situation. He more than likely is going to think that you are just trying to cause problems and she for sure is going to say the same. So you should choose your words and timing carefully. Maybe you should tell her that you heard what she said and you think that it is wrong and she should not be doing what she is doing. In the mean time try to convince him that he should not be giving her money and stuff like that. Or maybe tell one of his friends that you think you can trust about what happened and see if he or she can do something about it. You are in what seems to be a lose lose situation. If you do not tell him there is going to be a problem (your conscience) and if he finds out that you knew and did not say something he may get mad, then if you say something he may think that you are trying to cause problems. Good Luck!!
2006-07-10 04:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation. If you are still close and you know that he will believe you, then tell him. However, it could also seem like you are just saying things about the new girlfriend because you are jealous. It's not a good situation, just do what you think is best.
2006-07-10 04:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up and he's a big guy he can fend for himself. If he's that stupid to not know a chick is out for his money only then he gets what he deserves. You may be told your trying to mess up his new relationship or that your a stalker because you won't let go. Back off and the money grubbing witch will soon be out of his life if he's smart.
2006-07-10 04:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u were still good friends with him it would then be easier to tell him. I think u should go and have a nice little conversation with him but tell him about her and tell him the whole story. Tell him u ren't tring to be noise or tring to end their relationship u just thought he should know and that u wont interfere anymore and that he can do watever he wants but he needed to know.
2006-07-10 04:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by softballplayer913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine are too gentle to the contact!!!!!!!! that is terrible.. that is how i actually got here upon out i become pregnant! The extra alongside I grow to be the a lot less they damage! they don't spasm although. For some reason once you're pregnant the hormones on your body truly impact your breasts.
2016-10-14 07:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. leave the situation alone. People are gonna do what theyre gonna do, and most of the time you cant change that. its a waste of time and effort.
in time, he will realize whats going on, or she will inevitably find another guy to go out with. it will all happen believe me...
listen to this:my best friend went out with this guy i was in love with. i found out all this crap about him recently..hes a slut, hes slept with over ten girls, and hes a player just like his brother.im not gonna tell her...eventually he'll pull some crap on my friend and she will get out of relationship...no need to tell her.
or if you wanted to tell your ex....you could get a recording of her talking junk.
2006-07-10 04:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for some time i think for urself... hw wld u feel if u were in his place.jst tell him an a friendly manner n tell him u have no intensions to break his heart.leav the rest on him.dont do anythin much, trust me,i no the concequence.if her intensions are bad he will sonner or later find it out
2006-07-10 04:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by pri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if y ou tell him y ou should be very carefull in the way you tell him because he might think that you are just saying that to get him back... if you can find a way to show proof that she is using him then i say totally go for it... but don't forget that if you tell him you always run the chance in loosing him but if you are willing to take that risk i think you should because no one should use anyone
2006-07-10 04:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. If it were me I would tell, especially if me and they guy are still friends so that he doesn't get himself hurt!! Just think about what you would want him to do if the situation was reversed.
2006-07-10 04:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋