2006-07-10 04:05:44 · 53 answers · asked by phillp_r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until your ready to be called dad mistakes can happen no mater how safe you think you are.
2006-07-10 04:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to Risk Bringing Onto Yourself --and your family-- a Life-Time of Various Types of troubles that Usually Follow such 'activity'?! Or would you rather avoid all that as much as possible?
Please allow me to introduce to you a few articles written 'just for you' ... from a series entitled,
"Young People Ask" --
How Can I Deal With Sexual Harassment? :
... God's View
......What Do I Say?
......... Preventing Harassment
............ If You Are Harassed <<<
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2000/8/22/article_01.htm
Youths--Let Your Parents Help You Guard Your Heart! :
... Why Obey Your Parents?
...... Attraction to the Opposite Sex
......... The Persuasive Power of Your Peers
............ Worthy of Honor
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2004/10/15/article_01.htm
Why Am I Drawn to the Wrong People? :
... What Is Behind the Attraction?
...... The Role of Family
......... Other Influences
............ The Power of Friendship
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2005/7/22a/article_01.htm
Young People Ask
http://www.watchtower.org/archives/index.htm#young_people
(15 --so far-- of this serie's articles, posted on-line.)
There is also a book in print that is available, entitled:
"Questions Young People Ask -- Answers That Work"
http://www.watchtower.org/publications/publications_available.htm
(see at: Publications Available - Index)
How to Make Real Friends :
... We All Need Friends
...... Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
......... Good Friends - Bad Friends
............ A Note to Parents
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2004/12/8/article_01.htm
(This one is excellent, too (though not in the series)! You could even use it to help you start a conversation with your parents!
I hope that you take seriously the situation that you find yourself in. You can avoid a Lot of Trouble in your life
--both now & later-- by making Wise decisions, and often the First one is to Accept the guidance of those who are wiser than yourself ... ... ...
Who could be wiser than God Himself?
Sincerely,
"Make Sure of All things; Hold Fast to what is Fine!" 1 Th 5:21
2006-07-11 09:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! but the fact that you are asking tells us that you are a responsible young man. i am proud of you.
you guys really need to talk to an adult who can guide you in the right directions.
under no circumstances should you have sex without a condom., pregnancy isn't the only thing you need to worry about.
they are free at the health dept. and so is birth control. the two of you are to young to understand the consequences. one slip up and she is pregnant. she can get pregant from the first little bit of leaking that happen before you even start the act of having sex.
can you look her father in the eyes and tell him she's pregnant?
can you look your parents in the eyes and tell them?
you will break the trust you have with your parents.
also why does she want to have sex so bad?
you know regardless of who wants to do what, you are the one who is responsible for giving this girl a reputation. tell her you respect her too much to damage her reputation. you don't want other people to think she is nasty.
it is not worth the risk. too many young people are having unprotected sex and then not knowing what to do after wards. don't be one of these people.
if you read may of these questions on this site you will see how many people are making mistakes that they can't take back. all these girls are young and think they might be pregnant.
please wait, i promise you that you will be glad that you did.
2006-07-10 04:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by KAREN A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Please, no. I wish you felt comfortable enough talking with your parents or your Pastor about this, but I'm glad you are seeking advice from somewhere.
Please don't. Even though you and your girlfriend may truly care for each other, sex is not a game and nothing to be taken lightly. Sex is supposed to be the final ultimate bond a man and a woman cam make with each other AFTER they have joined their lives together in holy matrimony. It is a completion in your life, not a starting point for a 14-year-old.
Please respect her and respect yourself enough to not be pressured to rush into anything just because you feel like "everyone is doing it" or "I'll be wierd if I don't".
Check out the website "True Love Waits http://www.lifeway.com/tlw/
Actually, check out this site: http://www.goodmorals.org/puritylinks.html and they give you links to a bunch of other sites targeted at teens and adults talking about staying abstinent until marriage.
2006-07-10 04:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by luttibelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO
Good grief.. what if you have an accident and she gets pregnant. Don't think for a minute it can't happen. Imagine for a moment that you did have an accident.. what would you do about it if she decided to have the child. It can and will ruin your entire life and you cannot even support a child. Once the damage is done, there's no way out of it again.
But hey.. don't take my word for it.. ask some young guys who went through it and they'll tell ya.
2006-07-10 04:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then I'd say your not ready. In fact, at the age you're at you probably shouldn't even be thinking about it. If you do this, you'll have to be prepared for all of the consequences; pregnancy, disease, etc. I don't think it would be smart to do especially if your parents find out. Just don't do it until you're older and ready for it.
2006-07-10 04:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sereana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, when i look at a 14 year old I think of a little child. Trust me your way to young. When your older youll think the same thing.
2006-07-10 04:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Didn't you see the question where the woman was worried about her 16 y/o brother getting ready to be a dad? You have more important issues to worry about as a teen.
2006-07-10 04:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her. any guy that is still a virgin at the age of 17 will be the hottest hunk in high school. TRUST ME on this.. doing it early means you will lose your sex drive by the age of 30!
2006-07-10 04:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by herbie326 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, atleast you don't have the legal issues that an adult has. I say as long as she's about the same age and you have something to prevent her from having your kid right then... If it turns out to be a mistake, learn from it.
2006-07-10 04:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by horriblecomet8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and we havent had sex we just do little things that kinda turn eachother on, Why dont you guys try that.
2006-07-10 04:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋