My stepmom tells me I'm fat...?

Question

My stepmom tells me I'm fat. I'm 15, 5'3", and weigh 110. Am I fat? Does she have the right to call me fat?

My dad is in on this whole name calling thing too.

Answer 1

That's pretty not fat, especially when compared to the rest of America.

Answer 2

When I was young I went through a heavy time but she has no right calling you a lazy fat cow. Insults are horrible coming from an adult to a child. I bet if you told your father she said this she would out right deny what she said. Ignore her... She nothing but a bully. If you want to catch her saying these things have a hidden voice recorder in your pocket that can catch every word she says, then show your dad the truth. Well if this is your height and weight you should lose some weight for good health, but if you have water retention then there's medication for that too. Not all weight problems are due to fat, since there are many health issues that cause weight gain. So I can't say either way. Good Luck with that stepmother of yours, and I hope you can show her a better set of manners.

Answer 3

No that's not fat. If I were you I would let them know that it bothers u when they call u names. Esp. your stepmom. Who does she think she is to call u fat. That's not even right. Your only fifteen. Don't let it bother u but, if it does tell them to quit.

You still have a few more years to go and u prob. will get taller. As for ur weight its fine the way it is.

Answer 4

No not really most of your weight is your musles so its not fat that weighs 110 but just a little bit of the weight. Height really counts. As long as you eat healthy and get enough exercise your fine in weight. When you exercise think it as "I'm exerciseing because it is healthy for me" not because I'm fat. Your perfect the way you are. Dont let anyone tell you differently!!

Answer 5

No you are not fat, and a parent let alone a step parent has no right to be calling you that and if your dad is in on it to.....Hold your ground girl, stand tall, tell them that you dont like it and it hurts your feelings, how woukld they like it if ot was you calling them names. Im not saying you should turn into a disrespectful 15 year old but respect is earned and parents teach there kids to treat others how they want to be treated so maybe they should think about that.

Answer 6

you are not fat and you step mom has no right to call you so, if your father does not help, talk to an adult at your school or other family member and tell them everything. Maybe they'll talk to your step mom and dad. You have to try to find an adult who you can tell, just don't do it on the Internet.

Answer 7

Firstly, you are not fat. Secondly, even if you were, the only way she would have the right to call you fat is if she were genuinely concerned about your health (which doesn't seem to be the case). It sounds to me like she might be jealous of you.

Answer 8

No one has the right to call you fat. She's just insecure about herself or she wouldn't feel the need to put another person down.

Answer 9

take no notice of her you are not fat an if any weight is on you its just puppy fat you'll stretch out... you weigh nothing tell her she is a loon and she should see a quack for testing. man that woman needs a slap.

Answer 10

iam 16 and Iam 5'7" I weigh 120 and my mom tells me iam fat and i try to make my self anorexic and i lost like 30lbs but know i dont listen 2 her anymore i dont care any more and i think ur just ok for ur heigh u should just be ur self and dont belive that cause u will hurt ur self