2006-07-10 03:53:46 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My guy is also the same, bt I can do it for him, well the thing is did he do it when he was wooing u? As long as he is dependable, u can still accept it.
2006-07-10 03:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Unfortunately I think that people have obligations where they are. Also, it gets very expensive depending on where he might be flying from. There was a time that my husband and I lived in different states (during college) and he had a job, classes and not a lot of extra cash. You should ask him what the circumstances are for him - the reasons he can't.
At the same time, you didn't explain more so I'm going to assume you really do need him back - because expecting him to jump on a plane every single time you have a hard day at work is probably putting a lot of stress on him too. I think that having a long talk with him about the things that he is/isn't able to do would be really nice, and once you understand where he is coming from it might get easier. Maybe sometimes a phone call is really all he can do. I hope you are able to work things out.
2006-07-10 11:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how much that costs!?! What would normally cost $200 would instead be $500-600. Airlines will charge you up the wazoo when you are booking a flight at the last minute. If you really need him, offer to pay him the difference of the plane ticket. Also, what if he's working and leaving for home would pretty much mean walking out of work and risk losing his job? Are you going to support him financially until he can find another job? Whenever you think about how much you need him, you must think about the consequences. If the need outweighs the consequences, then yes, he should come home.
Have you thought of going to visit him where he's at? What a great way to surprise him! But then again, you have to respect that if he's working, he still couldn't be with you 24/7.
2006-07-10 11:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a billion and one reasons..
because $$
because he has his own life to take care of
because he has priorities
because he is logical and the girl's issue is probably not that big a deal
I'm female. And if I was out on a business trip or a trip with my friends, and my guy called and said he needed me- unless he was extremely deathly ill, seriously injured and/or about to die, I wouldn't hop on the next plane home. I might end my trip a little early if I felt it had real urgency.. but I find there isn't that much in the world that can't wait a few days.
2006-07-10 11:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are circumstances obviously. The world does not work that way. He might be busy, he might not be able to get away, he might not have the finances to get away. There are a million things that could be involved. But a girlfriend saying that, if the boyfriend can get away, I'm sure he would. But life is not that entertaining nor is it that easy. I'm in a long-term long-distance relationship with my boyfriend and soulmate Tony whom I love with my all. This is my 3rd month not seeing him and I tell him I need him all the time. He just can't get away - simple as that. Hopefully he's coming soon though - as soon as his tickets are booked! Can't wait!
2006-07-10 10:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're leaving too much out for the correct answer. Why is he away. Why does she need him. What will he be able to do for her when he gets there? What will it cost him to leave where he is at? Is it an option for her to get on a plane?
In the long run what would have been the better decision?
2006-07-10 11:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, it costs money. maybe he is away on buisness and CANT leave. maybe he knows that you want him to come back home for some stupid reason. Maybe if you expect him to do that he is too busy looking for a new girlfriend. Lots of reasons NOT to, and no good reason TO do it.
P.S. you say "especially when he is away", how would he do it if he WASNT away???
2006-07-10 11:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by justme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but he's gone, busy, it costs, and u have to book stuff and u don't know a thing! U don't go on any plane, and since 9/11 there's prolly stuff to do.
2006-07-10 10:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It costs more money to get a ticket at the last minute, Plus he most likely can't drop everything and come home.
2006-07-10 11:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by *Mz Ciska* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same boat, but its different now. i sent him a ticket, and when he came home i rewarded him with things he could never have ever imagined,now instead of going away he is cumming every time, when we are together.
I think to be polite here i meant coming
2006-07-10 11:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. If he's over in Iraq doing a 14 month Tour, you're SH** outa luck.
2006-07-10 10:57:00 · answer #11 · answered by horriblecomet8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋