I'm alone now and just can not imagine that this is how it's going to be, yet I am aware of single people and they seem very happy; so would you shed some light upon this for me, please?
2006-07-10 03:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was content before i met my future. i existed peacefully and amiably. evryday existence went on: neither good nor bad, just sort of plodding along in black and white.
now that there is someone to share with, even the most mundane things in life are more interesting. any decision made affects the both of us now, and i love it . 'black and white' has become living color... thanks to her!
still, this is not the answer to your question... without a lover to share your life, i imagine you could be satisfied. independent, able to come and go. you may find that you're your own best company. single people CAN be very happy... it's up to you to find the ways you can make it work best for you. hobbies, altruism, travel, philosophy... use your imagination!!
if you can concentrate on the "big picture" in life, and not just on your personal situation, it may help... good luck my friend.
2006-07-10 07:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by patzky99 6 · 10⤊ 3⤋
Come on. Life doesnt end when u r single. It's very difficult to be single but let's not forget about friends and family... U should go out and meet new people. If u're an introvert, so read or do the things u like best. Definitely there'll be more to come.After all surprises come in small packets.
There's someone out there made for u. Time will reveal it all
So cheer up and take care
2006-07-10 11:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Achiever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize that you are alone now but I doubt it will be forever.
My personal experience has been that those who are able to be happy being single; happy with themselves, make the best 1/2 of a couple later on.
People can complement each other as part of a loving relationship without depending on each other for happiness. Now that you are single, spread your wings a little, have some fun, meet new and exciting people without the pressure of feeling like you have to be the other half of a couple.
You will find yourself attracting new and interesting people if you can accomplish being happy with yourself. Good Luck and Enjoy!
2006-07-10 11:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the personality that you have.
People who don't have any partners or lovers are able to cope with the fact that they won't have anyone to share life. They live their lives in different ways, such as through friends and jobs, and professions and others.
Others, who desire for partners, are the ones that share their lives with someone, start a family, and live life to the fullest like that. They have children and such.
There are practically two types of people out there, and I think that there are more single people out there because of the fact that a lot of people don't take some relationships seriously and just want to party and have fun for most of their lives.
But anyways, that's my outlook on it. *nods*
2006-07-10 11:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by endlessly_waiting_in_the_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah. I was single after getting out of a 2 yr relationship and I felt akward. But I went out with my friends alot, found extra time to do what I loved to do. It ends up being single is GREAT and I really enjoyed the freedom- I answer ONLY to myself and can do whatever I want, when I want to. And through casual dating afterwards I learned alot about myself too.
Now that I've been single for a while and enjoying it- I'm ready to get in a relationship again and yea, it does kind of suck a little. Dean Martin said it "You're nobody till somebody loves you"... and that thought kind of sucks.
So- keys to enjoying single life- go out and party hard, do whatever you want, see your friends. And if you find yourself ready to start casually dating again- try to be open minded, and say yes (or ask out) someone you wouldn't have in the past, you'll be surprised. Its a good time to learn about yourself, your interests, and life in general.
Enjoy it!
2006-07-10 10:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was single and happy,, those were the good days my friend,, I thought they would never end, but I got married,I don't fish or hunt anymore , chase women, go to tittie bars, or hang out in bars. I guess everyone has to grow up sooner or later !!!!!
2006-07-10 11:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by john l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been single for awhile and i want to meet someone to marry and be happy with so yes it sucks being single but i am ting to be with someone that will want toi be with me just not for sex and i think that they will come along when god is ready to send that person good luck
2006-07-10 10:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was depressed before I had a BF but then I was still sad but I had some one to tell that I was sad. So I got really close to him that way.
2006-07-10 11:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by GalPal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt miserable until I found my partner.everyone was in couples.It was a sad lonely existence without him.he has made my life worth living.
2006-07-10 10:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im recently single and im wondering the same thing. i would much rather be in a relationship than be single.
2006-07-10 10:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋