and I like her a lott! she is a very private person, so I dont know if she has a bf. Though we dont work in the same department, we occasionally chat ( when working in the main comp room). I dont want to embaress myself and spoil the tiny amount of friendship thats left.. I have a small intution that she is single. She is a very quiet person which makes it even more difficult. Please advise
2006-07-10 03:48:59 · 14 answers · asked by Ram S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Out of all the little chats you had is there anything you remember that she likes. If you do that's good. It sounds you really like this girl, I hope you are willing to invest and be a bit more patient( you've waited 1 year). Try to get her on neutral grounds like out of the office. See if you can bump into her and from one of the things she told you that she likes try to get the conversation gowing.E.g Cinema - film - Get 2 tickets. Singer - concert get 2 tickets. You can always sell them if it doesn't work. But please don't try tO get into her knickers on the first, this is where you be patient and enjoy the ride. Don't go thinking too much about the future.
2006-07-10 03:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yves L 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Try to get into some sort of small talk and mention a story about an ex girlfriend or something, they will usually counter that with a story about an ex to show they are single or a mention of a boyfriend to show they are not single.
2006-07-10 03:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by AlaVera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you are working in the same office make some silent queries in administration and you will know a lot of things. Then you can decide what to do.Be little tactful man.Best of luck!
2006-07-10 03:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy, I know. Find out something she likes - an actor, a group/food....get her to talk about it and one day casually mention the film/concert/restaurant saying you will be going there, you could go together, that kind of thing.
This is very delicate, do not listen to those who simply say, ask her. You'll lose her!
2006-07-10 03:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful cause work relationships can get very tricky.. If you two ever brake up you will be stuck seeing each other every day. Would make it very hard for hearts to heal.
2006-07-10 03:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get a group from work to go out to see the a film or for a drink. Then ask her if she like to go. Then you see if you like her out side of work and if you do then why not ask her.
2006-07-10 03:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there well here some things you can do send her some flowers and then one everyday after that and then ask around your office if she is single and if she is invite her to dinner and the theater woman like that so good luck with it and hope you get your lady she would be lucky to have you.....
2006-07-10 03:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by wounderwoman44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date anyone you work with. You like her b/c she is there all day. There is someone else outside of work. And also makes it very uneasy if you two would hookup and breakup.
2006-07-10 04:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really a good idea to date someone you work with...when things go sour, you still have to see each other every day.
2006-07-10 03:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it ...i had a job romance and when that didn't work we still had to face each other...I suggest deal with you personal action away from the job...Don't get involved or you will regret it...or find you another job........ps....those quite one's beware!!
2006-07-10 04:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋