i have a 43 yr. old bf that stares at women. do you think this is disrespectful?

Question

and also do you think he should be use to women at his age. he does it all the time and i broke up with him becuz of it.

Answer 1

he should've learned to be more discrete about it by now,I would be offended too

Answer 2

Yes, I do think that this is disrespectful. However, I don't see anything wrong with a guy in his 40's being around women in their 20's as long as both feel comfortable with each other.

Answer 3

My sister and her husband came up with a clever solution to this problem. She said that it was hard for her husband not to notice women's cleavage, but also it was hard for her not to notice when a guy had a nice butt. So, whenever her husband ever noticed a woman's cleavage, he would point it out to my sister and they would make fun of her, about how she's busting out, etc. She does the same when she notices a guy's butt. And so these awkward situations always end in a good laugh. It may not work for everyone, but it's worth a shot.

Answer 4

ok , what do you want us to answer about this/ sometimes is disrespectful , some women love it ( most of them do sometimes and sometimes they call it disrespect ) some women only want thier man to have eyes for them. sounds like your one of thoes kind so it sounds like you you 2 weren't a good match. so you did the right thing. hang on to your standard

Answer 5

YES IT THINK IT IS DISRESPECTFUL, I WANT MY MAN TO LOOK AT ME AND ONLY ME BUT THEN ON THE OTHER TOKEN IF YOU ARE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SELF THEN IT REALLY SHOULDN'T MATTER.

Answer 6

you already solved your issue by breaking up with him!! are you just one of those women that are NEVER happy??