There is this one boy.
It started out as a crush,
and he even liked me back
but then once I started flirting back,
he suddenly didn't like me anymore
I kinda laid down the flirting a little thick
I sent him a note on
valentines day, admitting my true feelings about him,
and he told the school and broke my heart
but I still like him.
Then my friends told him i liked me,
he told the school and broke my heart again
Then, I realized something,
i didn't like him--i loved him.
i felt like i needed to "save/change" him
I sent him a deep email and...
he fowarded it to everyone in the grade
He broke my heart again
Now he is chasing after a barbie doll girl who doesn't like him back.
But I really, really want him.
Because i love him
2006-07-10 03:16:23 · 7 answers · asked by jaguargrrl27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop doing that to yourself ... this boy has no respect for your feelings. You can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved or doesn't need saving.
All you can do is save yourself a lot of pain and embarrassment by moving on and forgetting about this guy.
Love is an action not a feeling. Love yourself and move on!!
2006-07-10 04:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been used, dumped and now history as a conquest.
Make this a lesson learned in life, move on.
You will be stronger from this experience and be able to find someone better - a person who will respect you and not humiliate, a person who likes you as you are, and one who has the potential for greatness.
Obviously he does not fit this profile.
Expand your network of friends, go out to meetings, join non-profit groups, take up a cause, work during elections, join sport leagues.
There are lots of great people there - you can tell from the way they manage the events, interact with others, and you can tell that they all love what they are doing, and are having lots of fun and not brooding about this silly person.
Someone there will spot you and will be your real, true love.
Not him.
2006-07-10 03:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must hurt a lot, but if someone doesn't love you, you can't change it and I am tlaking from experiance. It is not most likely to happen...ever. As much as it hurts you'll have to foget him and never again write him or talk to him, becasue he will keep hurting you over and over again. I just hope you will find someone who is worth you and will make you forget this awful pain.
2006-07-10 03:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by whocouldthatposs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a creep, and you like him only because you know that you can't have him. Find someone who will treat you better.
2006-07-10 03:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIM.
PLEASE TALK TO HIM
i know the pain of love.
there is no cure for that.
open your heart.
2006-07-10 03:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by rayer_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl....u deserve much much more. and if not right now, the moron will realize later that u are a much worthier person. until then, move on, cuz he's not worth it
2006-07-10 03:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by desiichic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ull have to move on
2006-07-10 03:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋