ok so he wasnt married when i first fell in love with him. he was single...and looking...we talked and loved each other for like 6 months...the we stopped talking and he moved on and i moved on. now he is married and unhappy and i am single and happy being that way. yet he still loves me and i still love him... i feel as though we are soul mates.. like we should be together and he feels the same way.. yet he is married and unhappy the only thing keeping them together is there child.. i want to be with him and he wants to be with me. but he hasnt left his wife yet.. life sucks right..i know what i need to do but i dont wanna get over it.
2006-07-10 03:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by glowofacandle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there -done that. Don't do it. Stay away and don't be tempted. Trust me, it will end in disaster. I know you don't want to hear that and won't take my advice (I was the same way) but you are heading for a heartbreak.
2006-07-10 03:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you broke up the first time. There must have been issues then that you are choosing to ignore. If you were truly "soul mates" why did you part? Why did he marry and become a father with someone else? Maybe you two really do belong together now, but you need to not get sucked into an affair with him. If he truly wants to be with you he will get his life in order first. If he isn't willing to do that, then you have your answer. Good luck.
2006-07-10 10:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being someone who was married and divorced with children. I love women, I mean really love women! I had the opportunity to move on and be with almost anyone. But I chose to reconcile and go back to my now wife again because there comes a time in a mans life where he has to put himself second. By that I mean for his children. Broken homes are so commonplace these days and we wonder what is wrong with our children. There is someone out there for you but don't take away the opportunity to grow up in a stable family environment for those kids. And I suggest that you tell him the same. The best thing you can do for a child is love there mother.
2006-07-10 10:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks but you should get over him. It's perfect right now because you're giving him the love he is looking for FROM HIS WIFE!!!! Don't fill that void for him anymore!! Find someone (single) that will be for you - like you want him to be. You guys are getting the best part of relationships right now. He knows you are just waiting there for him whenever he needs someone to talk to. Think about his children - you don't want to be the person that broke up a family. I did it once and it was horrible!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-07-10 10:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bully513 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a man i would say its always the case when we want to have a relationship after marrage we [i mean men] always say that we r not happily married and take the sympothy vote.
2006-07-10 10:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by shanikhan75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a firm believer in true love so its hard for me to say this but i think you should leave him alone if he doesn't leave his wife obviously he loves her to or else he would not of married her the marriage is young so they can stilll work it out picture your self in her position how would you feel if you truly love him then you will tell him to fix things with his wife because it could stil work
2006-07-10 10:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him,cause you will never be happy with someone elses husband.If you are meant to be with him then you will be,but don't force the issue it is bad luck to have an affair with a married man.Girl listen to me RUN,RUN,RUN!!!!!!!!Good luck!
2006-07-10 10:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is really immature and irresponsible (He has a child!).
You need to get involved with better men ( like me?)
2006-07-10 10:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him like the plague. No good can come from this.
That child needs his/her daddy more than you need the lovin'.
2006-07-10 10:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmm.sorry, find your own man boo.
2006-07-10 10:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋