there's a guy i really like and i can't quit thinking about him. i asked 2 of my friends about wut they think and they think that i am fallin in lov wit this guy. but i am not sure if i am b/c i don't know wut love is. WHAT DO YOU PEOPLE THINK LOVE IS?
2006-07-10 02:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by Softball_Chica_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had some people say that i am ready for love but i am only 14. y would i b ready for love so early in life? my friend said that God doesn't put anything before anybody that they can't handle but now she says that i am in way over my head with this whole thing. so if she thinks that i am in way over my head why did she say the other thing?
2006-07-12 02:26:19 · update #1
I am in the same situation with my boyfriend. Love is an uncontrollable feeling like you just know you want to have a life with this guy.I say go for it. You can't go wrong. If you love him it's meant to be!
2006-07-12 12:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
love is an action, not an emotion. we have given it an emotional attribute, but it still doesn't explain it because look at all the people who thought they "loved" each other and got a divorce or broke up or whatever.
love is your family going to six flags and you going to your friend's house with chicken soup instead.
love is parents telling you no, you can't do that, and whether you think they are being unreasonable or not, you do what they say.
love is when you tell your boyfriend no, you don't want to have sex, and he says ok and doesn't ask again two days later or even two months later.
love is when you are more concerned with making the other person happy or comfortable than making yourself happy or comfortable.
...and loving yourself is setting your boundries and not crossing them for anyone, while others loving you is respecting those boundries and not trying to talk you out of them.
does that make sense?
2006-07-10 20:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Choose Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well love is a whole lot of things roled into one, but in your case for example you are falling into love. This is when you get nervous, butterflies, jittery when you know you are abot to see him or talk to him. But loving someone is when you are there for them unconditionally, no matter what. You would give your life for them no matter the circumstance! So maybe your in love honey and thats a very pretty emotion, keep it!!
Note: it take s one second to like someone, a day to love someone, and a lifetime to forget that someone!
2006-07-10 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion that your thoughts and feelings react when you meet and can't stop thinking about a particular person, this feeling is considered to be heart felt, however, this is merely a loving feeling...to be in love is when you begin to date this person and they prove to be as warm and charming as the feelings you feel of them...and if they respond with the same feelings as you..then it can be considered true love. Your experiencing the first stages of falling in love...I urge you to find out if can lead to true love...good luck..blessings.
2006-07-10 10:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is indescribable feeling, there are really no symptoms to know that you're in love.. this might sound clique but You just know it. In my opinion it's a feeling that you have towards another person it's when this person just adds to much happiness in your life , someone that you don't care what they look like sick or nicely dressed. someone that you see yourself with no matter what and that you would do anything for.
2006-07-10 10:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is something AMAZING it hurts when there not around but you feel so giddy when they are You cant stop thinking about him/her your heart aches for that person But if you are in love please hold on to it dont let it go because love only happens when its really supposed to and you only get love when you are truly ready for it But do hold on to it because when you lose it it hurts worse then anything else i made that mistake so tresure all your loves
2006-07-11 21:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like magic.
Love is like a mountain,
hard to climb,
but once you get to the top
the view is beautiful.
Love is when you look into someone's eyes you see everything you've ever desire.
Love is when someone looks into your eyes and tells you that to the world you might be one person but to me you mean the world.
If you feel that way about him...then it's love
2006-07-10 10:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a kind of feeling you have toward someone. You may be in love with them, but that love may be based on your infatuation w/ that person or it may be based on mutual understanding. from the sounds of it, if you are in love its more of the passionate love than practical love.
2006-07-10 10:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the feeling when he or she farts and everybody looks in disgust, but your smiling with love at the person.
Lust is the feeling that drives you to wanna kiss the person...
2006-07-10 10:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by tgr_fsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is something that makes someone really like another person and that someone will not hesitate to risk his/her won life to save that person.
2006-07-10 10:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋