Be patient.. pray for them that the Lord will touch their hearts and give them a wisdom on decision making when it comes to finances and their faith. Don't try to be hard on yourself, we can't change them, we need to be loving to them until we get the reward. Make your own effort to show them how you deal with it and you would be the example to them, the more they get pressured on doing something that we want them to do the more they get rebellious.
Express them what you feel, what you think , and don't expect to give it to you right away.
2006-07-10 03:09:23
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answered by Anonymous
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If your husband is un-faith full and your finances are out of control regardless of what you do then the problem is far greater than your ability to get answers here.
Unless those family members see the problem, and are willing to change it, nothing you can do will make any difference. You may have to move on or just live with it.
The most important thing to remember is that regardless of these problems you are only responsible for one person. You. Your children come next. And that unfaithfully husband come last. Try to get help if you can. A pastor or friend that can help you see where you are and what to do.
2006-07-10 03:03:00
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answered by John B 5
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IN terms of finance i don't know but as far as unfaithfulness is concerned if occures when one feels insecure abt something
Your husband too might be fighting this insecurity, try to convince him with your love and make him confident.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 03:01:19
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answered by ravi k 2
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Give them an option, change your ways or get the H**l out!!
2006-07-10 02:57:21
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answered by ? 3
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tell them that family comes first, and do not become part of the statistics that did not realize that when they lost everything that is precious to them
2006-07-10 03:01:25
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't they must want to change and agree to treatment.
2006-07-10 02:55:38
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answered by shae 6
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Be more specific.
2006-07-10 04:52:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Tough Love...............
2006-07-10 03:06:16
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answered by Grandma Susie 6
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