find a new love....GOD......and also love your life....i had to find this out last year...crying works but after a while you are all cried out....laughing works but then you realize that laughing leaves you nothing when you stop...hang out with your friends...but when they go home...you have noone with you.. so love GOD and love your self and your life will work out in the end....for me i have my GOD, MY DAUGHTER and me.....and now i am ready for a new love a man
2006-07-10 02:52:49
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answered by glowofacandle 2
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answered by ? 3
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this answer has been heard before, over and over before, but it is true. time is the healer. there is a reason the phrase "time heals all wounds" is heard frequently... it's true. i've been there more than once, and time is the great healer. it gives you a perspective of where you've been, what hurt you, and was it worth the hurt? the answer is always, NO. and, by the way, anyone that is ok with causing hurt, is not worth your time, not in hurting, not in caring that they are gone.people who are ok with hurting others are disconnected. just take this as a lesson in life, and be more discerning , or questioning, before you go into another relationship. if you can do this, congratulate yourself, and silently thank this person, because you've been made wiser, and stronger. trust me, you will laugh again, and you will love again. just make sure you don't love again too soon.
2006-07-10 03:05:25
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answered by Debi K 4
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With out a doubt the best way to heal your broken heart is to patiently get to know yourself.
I was married for 16 years when my wife passed away. I was in great pain for a long time and am still not totally healed. For 16 years my every thought, motivation was for what was best for "us". Now it was just "me". But I didn't know who I was.
As I take time to get to know who I am: what do I like, what do I want to do with the house, do I want to go back to school, do I want to golf more, should I put more money away for retirement?
Get to know who you are, what you want, need, desire and when you become comfortable with who you are you will be ready for any relationship.
Good Luck.
2006-07-10 03:11:05
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answered by Bud 5
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the best way to deal with a broken heart is time and lots of prayer and meditation. Also spend some quality time with your family and close friends. Keep your head up and remember that there is someone out there for everyone.
2006-07-10 02:47:26
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answered by angeleyes 2
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Don't miss even a day. Life is short. Find a new one of your type. But remember that it is nothing to do with sexuality. Because rebound sex will make you harder to find the new one. Remember that broken heart is a love affair, not a sex affair. Try to fix your heart first, sex later.
2006-07-10 02:52:18
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answered by devid 3
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The biggest thing is Time. Keep yourself busy and occupied. Go out with friends and do things that you'll enjoy. Basically keep your mind occupied so you don't think of the breakup. Now I'm not saying forget everything from that relationship but remember the good times.
2006-07-10 02:47:01
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answered by B.J. 4
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In one word, TIME. Thats the best healer. Life says Move On & thats the way to go about it. Involve in other activities of your interest. Dont get depressed & look weak. Take time to life its the music of the soul.
Best of Luck.
Abhishek
2006-07-10 02:49:58
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answered by The Champ 3
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Invest in quality time with friends and family who are always wiling to support you during these tough times. Treat yourself to a day at the spa or plan a weekend getaway. You'll be back to yourself in no time. Good luck!
2006-07-10 02:46:06
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answered by shae 6
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As cliche as it sounds, it's true: Time heals all wounds.
When I caught my ex-boyfriend cheating my heart was shattered. I went straight to my sister's house, and she made it her mission to keep me busy. It worked. We went swimming, shopping, went to go see movies, rented movies to bring home, played cards, went biking, made chocolate-chip cookies. BUSY is the key.
2006-07-10 02:47:52
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answered by Back in the Day 2
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be with your friends... they can be of help in times like this... give yourself time to heal your broken heart... am sure you will pass it with flying colors... i have been in your shoes before... and now i am ok... and moving on
2006-07-10 02:46:47
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answered by boyang 5
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