What do men look for in women? How can i attract men?

Question

I had been single since forever. I know i am not ugly but men are just not attracted to me. I long for a relationship again.......

Answer 1

Most men/guys are a little intimated if a woman is not friendly. If they find you attractive
they may say to themselves, wow I would like to meet her. But when they look for ways to do that they may not be finding it.

Unless it is painful to look at you, and that almost never is the case, and I am sure with
you it is not, there will always be guys that would like to meet you but just do not know
how.

You have to do the following things:

Make yourself available. You have to go out, talk to men on the internet, but do not sit at
home where no one can find you.

Be friendly. Let guys know they will be find if they walk up and say hi to you.
That means you have to smile allot.

Trust me women have a much easier time than guys do of attracting the opposite sex.
If you want a relationship you must go out with guys that fit your personality.

Try one of the on-line dating web sites. Set up your profile, do not lie, be very truthful,
and you will find guys all over the place that you can talk too. I'm sure you have done this but guess what. Unless you find someone local it is all practice. What you do on-line should be exactly what you would do in real life.

So let the games begin and let the guys come running. They will but don't expect that
every guy will want to get married. Give that time....it will happen.

Answer 2

Check yourself out or ask a friend to critique' your appearance cause, unfortunately, that's the first thing guys see (and women too). But men are visual creatures. You need a nice appearance with not too much skin...they love mystery too. You have to make direct eye contact and smile a little. That gives them the signal that it's ok to approach you. Then practice your small talk. It's not hard, just be self-assured and they will be flocking to your side.

Answer 3

dont need to go overboard in making yourself up or panic. just be yourself. if you think you're the problem, get a close friend to look you over...there could be little tiny problems that easy to fix somewhere.
if you try hard to attract and it does, you'll have a tough time keeping up and that not the real you.
be yourself and maybe a bit more and its you and yourself that attracts and a smart guy would be and only the not so smart will shun or not notice a pretty lady in wait. good luck.

Answer 4

Hey,

beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but u should ensure that u do not act too pricy with male friends. I think u need to be in a group with a good mix of boys and girls.

Even the boys like giirls who r hard to get, they lose interest in any girl who seems to be impossible to get so cheer up, go along with other and u might see light of the day

I would like to definitely know if u like my suggestion.

Bye for now and all the very best and take care.

Sanjay

Answer 5

Learn the word "Yes". Men like hearing that.
DON'T play "hard to get". If he knows you like him and you keep putting it off, it will put him off. Then he will move on.
Be open and honest. Some mysteries men don't like.
Don't play games. It is rude and disrespectful. Any man with a decent amount of positive self-esteem will broom a game player - fast.

Answer 6

Tell you what, give me a yell and I'll see if I can help. I know a lot of people with the same kinda problem, and it's different for each one, but never difficult to figure out. The problem is probably just that you don't seem interested. [e-mail]

Answer 7

First thing is to dump the hat. No seriously, a big smile goes a long way. Stay fit, be conscious of your grooming habits and wear clothes that accentuate your positive features. Smile a lot! Good Luck!

Answer 8

Desperate?? maybe?? do you need a man to make you happy? go with the flow, enjoy life..be happy with yourself..how is your self esteem level? men are attracted to women who are sure about themselves..you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous for a man to find you attractive..

the one for you is out there..quit looking for him..things will come when you least expect it ;)

Answer 9

Change your style while still being yourself. Spruce up your wardrobe, change your hair. That way people will notice something different about you and say "hey look what she did to her hair today it looks amazing!" Therefore it will make you feel better with your confidence and helping your "attraction". As, you may know or not know its the looks that gets the guys first attention. ( i know it sucks but hey there guys ) Once you get there "attention" its personality that keeps them staying there. I hope this helps! Good luck!

Answer 10

Men like women who love them. To know that someone truly cares for you is the biggest turn on period. If you like a guy be truly sincere if you like him. You can give off little clues. You will need to know their name. Buy him a cup of coffee. Make eye contact!