during intercourse a girl i know actually gets minor butt mud on my bed and on the floor if we do it there. she is kind of young but am i doing it too hard or is there anything i can do?
2006-07-10 02:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
maybe she is not practicing good hygene or perhaps her anal muscle are not that strong. I know that it is embarrassing however, maybe, you care for her, that you should talk to her about it. She may not be aware of the problem if you have never pointed it out to her. Be kind and gentle because it can be devastating to her if you are not careful.
2006-07-10 02:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by pacifia1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is nothing medically wrong with her, and there can be a host of things that cause that I'm sure, then there's only thing I've come across that could cause that. Their called Fecal Soilers. This is sad case if she is one. In some cases, people, usually starts in childhood, during stress find ways of coping. One of those ways is to "hold" your crap. You'll have to understand how the mind develops to understand this, during the first stages of mental development the ID and its desires rules the mind followed by the ego and the super ego. The ID is the most undeveloped of those, its pleasures stem from simple things such as touch, and yes anal pleasure. There's too much to info on that to go too deep so I'll leave it there. By holding it, they attain some kind of pleasure, a comforting one I imagine.
With that said, if she has this disorder she holds her crap, to the point where it actually leaks, the anal muscles cannot hold it back and it just leaks. It fatigues the muscles. If and when she has sex she can easily loose control and it can leak.
Though this is usually more than minor...I dunno how much is..left on the bed...but if its like...more than normal..if there is a normal then that could be a cause. Not saying it is, just relaying what I know.
Typically sighs of someone who has this is constant sitting, an unusually tight butt, even though they don't work out, unwilling to participate in very active things that involve alot of moveing around.
2006-07-10 02:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Darkmaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't have a clean system then during penetration the muscles are contracting on their own and this is something that she can't help. the best thing for her to do is use the restroom before sex. Some advice to you is I am sure that this is embarrassing for her so try not to make a big deal about it. just clean up the mess and thats about all you can do. also you can try using other positions that won't cause her to use the mucsles that are causing this delima.
2006-07-10 02:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by miss giggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wierd! Sounds like she does not have good control of her muscles down there. Is this happening when she climaxes, maybe? Not sure what to say. You are talking about regular intercourse, not anal, right? I have never heard of anything like that before.
2006-07-10 02:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Okkieneko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have a neurological problem. If you can delicately point out that what is happening doesn't seem to be "average," you might then encourage her to seek medical attention. Multiple Sclerosis is one condition which can cause this, but there are many.
2006-07-10 02:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by risibility1956 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are you talking? I've never heard of this, but I'd recommend you tell her to go to the bathroom before-hand. If there's nothing there to start then nothing will come out...
2006-07-10 02:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by SpikeBoy.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One answer - crotchless Depend's!
2006-07-10 02:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by DMR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds yucky, I think she's unhygenic, nthing to do with u.
2006-07-10 02:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinky.
2006-07-14 01:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Pauly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋