My best friend of 15 years, is dating someone and has 2 children with this man. Yet she has cheated on him dozens of times with like 4 or 5 different guys. I feel bad for him, but she doesn't love him she doesn't want to be with him anymore, so she is doing this to get him to go away and its not working. she tells me this and it makes me wonder why am even friends with her. but we have been friends forever and i cant imagine my life with out her in it.. advice please......someone anyone???
2006-07-10 02:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by glowofacandle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i tell her this is wrong
2006-07-10 02:19:01 · update #1
ok here is the deal, i am not inlove with her 40 year old boyfriend (us being 24) im just more or less concerned with the children that are involved. and she is my bestest of friends
2006-07-10 02:45:46 · update #2
i have a similar friend yet she's not married nor in a relationship...she dates alot a men and have 2 girls..the majority of the time i do just listen and give my personal advice sometimes but i mostly just listen because i learned in the past preaching isnt gonna change her, you set the example & maybe she'll learn & try to follow, i know its hard being long time friends and i know it makes you look similar to her by her being your friend but continue to do you and your friend, it will come back around to her and someone will do her the same..trust it will happen..good luck
2006-07-10 02:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by The Next Top Model 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i guess sick freshen up the language somewhat yet she is being truly a "hoe". you pick to inform a figure, instructor, or counselor, about this. no matter if she had to have sex with that guy, sex with an underage individual IS rape. i'm hoping he doesn't get stuck...properly actual i do desire he receives stuck because its ill to be having sex with a 12 365 days previous even as your virtually an adult. She both needs therapy or a lengthy chat including her mum and dad. Shes for sure replaced and also you should help get her decrease back by technique of telling someone. She may be extremely offended with you before each and everything, yet later on she will be in a position to finally end up thanking you. also desire she doesnt have some icky STD or lands up getting knocked up. good success to you and your chum/
2016-11-30 23:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by brezee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, a real friend don't call each other names. A hoe is a garden tool. If you mean a whore, try to determine if knowing her is worth dealing with all her problems and if its not then you know what to do, no matter how difficult that decision may be. Remember this. A real friend knows when to leave and when to stay. I wish you comfort and peace. Good luck and much wisdom.
2006-07-10 02:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever attracted her to you as a good friend is still there! Sounds like you are not happy about her morals and are finding fault with her and seeing small chinks in her armour.
Either be a constant good friend or drop her...the fact that you can write to a bunch of strangers about her morals anf your sympathy for her fellow would indicate to me that you should move a mile away, are you sure your not a bit in love with that guy???
2006-07-10 02:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is sort of like that... me i just listen and sometimes I tell her what I think and sometimes I don't... but Life always runs its coarse and soon all will be out in the open... just let her be and she will be her own down fall
2006-07-10 02:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting yourself in the same category as a "ho" if your running around with one so you might want to pick better friends or get used to
what people think of you...If you really want to help your friends children then tell their father what's going on so he can get them away from their mother before she does permanent damage to them....Sorry this might make you mad but it's true. :-(
2006-07-10 02:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As her friend, you need to be straight with her and tell her she is wrong. What goes around, comes around. And she is definitely going to end up with someone that will treat her just as bad or worst.
2006-07-10 02:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know older people use to say show me your company and I will tell you your character. You have to decide weather you want that kind of rep or get new friends.
2006-07-10 02:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by tonkster99forreel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like youre an adult, so you need to be up front with her. tell her what she is doing is completely irresponsible. tell her she needs to grow up. she is not setting a good example for her children. if she is your friend she will realize you are only trying to help her.
2006-07-10 02:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll probably stop cheating when she gets an STD, then she'll appreciate you as a friend and her very stupid but Loyal baby daddy. If not, somebody should just kick her ***.
2006-07-10 02:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋