I can fall in love quickly with every cute guys I see, but why is it so that I don't want to have a boyfriend? I have many male friends, some of them are really close friends with me, one of them even asked me for a date, he's really cute, but I refused! Why!? I myself am cute enough to get a dude, but I just can't have a relationship!
2006-07-10 02:00:46 · 23 answers · asked by ♥ Chelsea Blue ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'M NOT SCARED! I don't get the nerves, I am not afraid of things at all! I don't have any traumas! I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I am just me, THEY are asking ME to date!
2006-07-10 02:04:17 · update #1
Heheh, as long as I can't see your avatar, I can't see how ''cute'' you are! By the way, I'm 24.
2006-07-10 02:05:41 · update #2
Relationships are not just about the looks of the coulpe, they are more about the bond they share and how they communicate that bond. Next time you are looking for a potential boyfriend consider his personality as well as his looks. Also, try being more confident in yourself, if you like a guy and want to ask him out... be confident and just ask him out. Just remember that the worst that could happen is that you could get rejected. If you do, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-07-10 02:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh my god!!! we r so like each other!! and i thought i was the only one with that problem!!! i think its just teenagehood!!! but this year i put my self down and said... vassia !! u must put a end t this bulls*it !!! so im in a realashionship now... its so hard!! even though he's great the idea still freaks me out!!! but im trying and im happy!!! it just all in ur head at some point u will get sick and tired of all the guys and want t have something serious... aaa and not every cute guy u fall in "snap" love with is the best... i had the same thing and that made me think.. will i ever be able t decide and stay true t only one dude??? but now everything is better.. at least now... its just a phase....
2006-07-10 09:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by vassia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looks like by the above answers this might not be the place to get advice. One of the ways that a few friends, attractive ladies, have solved this mini-crisis is surprisingly simple.
They took a weekend trip , alone. Went to a holiday area, did a little clubbing, and returned refreshed. Then ready to date. My speculation is that they were involved in some casual sex. It certainly worked.
2006-07-10 10:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's very simple. The problem is that you don't want to date right now. It's a very simple subcontious thing that most people never notice. You can want a relationship very bad, but that very slight subcontious conditioning can sometimes keep you from actually pursuing any relationships.
2006-07-10 09:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just not good with relationship. It takes time to build the inter-personal relationship skills. Partially, it may have something to do with your self-esteem, your shyness, or your fear. But since I don't know you, I cannot say which one is the reason for sure.
2006-07-10 09:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-10 09:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by SATHYAA 007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now listen, if you will fall in love with every cute boys you see, why not take it this way, you like every cute boys you see right?lets try and change it to: The boys are cute and they are your friend, and its a thing to be proud of as you have cute boys as your friend this might make you feel better.
But of course if you really see someone WHO you really LOVE(like you may risk your life for that person)don't hesitate to be with him, but of course you must see your age too.
2006-07-10 09:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is no problem. your simply not ready to settle down. maybe your just waiting for the right guy or just want to keep your options open incase you find one. remember, if you take the first one you see you'll never know what you could get later.
2006-07-10 09:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by rtb438 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of the Brilliant females I know...
Leave it the way it is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. Men suck just plain and simple.
2006-07-10 09:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a break. Take a while (like months) away from thinking about dating. then go back and ur find urself better at holding one
2006-07-10 09:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋