Okay, so I did a dumb thing and now I can't stop thinking about it. I had a threesome with two of my guy friends, who I"ve know forever! I feel really bad about it...we are all in relationships with other people. How should I handle seeing them after this, and should we all fess up to our significant others?
2006-07-10 01:54:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH YEAH, you did it up bigtime! Now assuming you're female (you didn't say otherwise), I'd say don't tell anything to the significant others, just go about your business. I'm sure he'll find out anyway; then if he does...tell him how embarassed you were and don't be surprised if he dumps you.
Assuming you're a guy....Dude....you're GAY! Leave the women alone and find your place somewhere else.
2006-07-10 02:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are feeling guilt. If you did tell your significant other, do you think he would forgive you? If you don't tell him... Can you live with the guilt and take it to the grave? Honestly, I would tell your significant other. Without trust you have nothing. And if he was keeping this type of secret from you, how would you feel? Being an adult about the situation doesn't mean keeping it from your mate. Being an adult means to take responsibility for your actions. There's obviously a reason you had the threesome. Are you sure that you even want to be in a secluded relationship with this person? And if so, do you want to risk him finding out from someone else?
2006-07-10 02:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a huge deal about it with your firends. THey probably feel a little akward and guilty right now too. Just try to let it go... if you all wanna talk about it then do, but otherwise just move on and continue with your friendship. And as for telling the others, you will all have to mutually decide on that... One of you can't tell if all of you don't want to, because it will get around as soon as one of you tells. Deal with your guilt... leave your boyfriend out of it.
2006-07-10 02:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why fess up when you all stand to loose the best thing you can do is make sure it never happens again unless you enjoyed it but next time invite the others to join but don't let the cat out of the bag you never know they may enjoy it too.
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2016-10-14 07:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by maget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u fess up u stand 2 lose ur relationships.best thing 2 do is 2 relize it was a dumb thing n move on.
2006-07-10 01:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you all drinking? I think you just need to tell them that you feel you messed up and you hope it doesn't get in the way of your friendship. Open and honest. Let it go!
2006-07-10 01:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no point of reference for this one Thank God.
But I think you should keep quiet because it isn't only your decision but the others....how does one get themselves into such a mess?
2006-07-10 02:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew already that you knew them forever! So tell me freespirit are you soaring with the eagles now? Deal with the feeling bad. born2damromantic
2006-07-10 02:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and move on....its not that big a deal......be mature about it......don't try to avoid the topic if it happens to come up....but don't confront them about it....u all just need to be adults about the whole thing.
2006-07-10 01:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋