2006-07-10 01:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by MATADOR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's depends on the woman,and the type of fantasies. Some women don't mind being told while others may not. If you think it could be offensive or a little too sexual then ask her how she feels about it. I prefer convos with a guy be respectful. I joke,but some things to me are for the person you are in a relationship with or spouse.
2006-07-13 22:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose that everything depends about what do you consider as vivid fantasies....
If for you a vivid fantasy is to play with a Russian roulette, then I believe that an average woman runs away for her sake.
In other cases, just test easy;;;;talking before start biting her a bit wild.
In any case, enjoy your life the best you can, and watch out of the viruses, etc, Matador.
2006-07-10 01:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it like it is. say, "i've always had a vivid imagination and it carries over into my dreams. i find you a very attractive woman and i like you alot, so you've worked your way into my unconscious," or something like that. explain that you're not just busting out with a complicated fantasy because you just want to find a way to have sex with her (i'm hoping this isn't the case), but because you want to share the way she has been beautifully portrayed in your head.
assure her that you don't expect her to act it out with you, but that you felt you should share the thought. unless it's extremely twisted, she might even be flattered. but think before you speak, or you might end up making her think you're a scary stalker.
2006-07-10 01:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by ciarellestormblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to broadcast your fantasies. They're for YOU. If you ever feel the woman you are with would be open to trying out something new, approach it delicately. Trust is important in a relationship - try to use good judgment and share when appropriate.
2006-07-10 01:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling you cant go and tell women about your fantisies... if this is your partner of some time then just tell them the truth come out and say it as long as your not talking about beating her and then rapeing her then whats the problem its a fantasy
2006-07-10 01:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If telling your girl about your fantasies scares her, then
a.) you are telling her too soon in the relationship. Some things need time.
or, if not
b.) she shouldn't be with you if she's not in touch with her own sexuality.
2006-07-10 01:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you've some fantastic stories/story to share with her. Try to be as impersonal as possible.
2006-07-10 01:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell just do it.
2006-07-10 01:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋