Should l tell him how l feel?

Question

My boyfriend and l have been seeing one another for the past ten months.
We havn't said l love you to each other yet.
He's had lots of girlfriends in the past, so therefore l have waited before telling him how l feel as l don't want to just be number 52, but l do love him, sholud l tell him or is it still to soon?

Answer 1

Tell him.Life is too short.Don't let go of any more time.Tell him as soon as possible.
Good luck.

Answer 2

First thing I hope you are of age, If yes then, this advice is for you, He might not want to hurt you like he has broken the hearts of many others girls in the past, so he might be afraid of falling in love with, that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, (they are two different things), probably he doesn't want you as a girlfriend, I do not think he's your boyfriend (check the meaning of the word boyfriend online), except you guys are already getting it on (you know what I mean), then I say no hope, if you guys are not yet getting in on, is a very good thing, don't be the one to trip, he should tell you first, is the rule, is never too soon, is better you express your feelings to him than tell him, if he loves you he will tell you

Answer 3

Life has a way of bringing to pass what words we speak.
Your telling him so will draw your heart to the matter. It's in most of the times worthwhile not to rash things which involves our heart(s). Ten months is quite some period and he has never told you a thing. Men naturally cannot hold it too long before they tell it to you, if there is commitment in them for you. You mentioned he has had many girlfriends, are they still there?What caused him to break up with them. Is there any way of telling/knowing if he is holding you pending as he calculates his moves; i.e. whether to continue with you or choosing between you and others.From the way you have asked the question, there seems to be a hint of uncertainity about the position of your relationship with him.
I am not trying to discourage you but as a precaution, don't just open your vulnerability to his preying. Don't pull your heart much into him for now; reconsider your stand with him. You may like something about him that's not love. I admit you can love someone who doesn't love you. However for love to thrive, there has to be a flow from both parties concerned or involved; which doesn't seem to be manifesting in your case, not unless you're waiting to have a breakdown in the near future. PLease wisely consider before taking another step. Thanks.

Answer 4

You will know when the right time is when you are with him. Do you feel that he loves you when you are with him? Are the two of you happy when you are togeher? Do you trust him when he says you are special? Does he make you feel special, like you are the one for him and not just a number on his list?
In my opinion, if you can answer any two of these questions truthfully and still like what you hear yourself say, he might just be the one for you - then go on and tell him before he starts thinking that you don't care about him or the relationship! Good luck!

Answer 5

well, after all these 10 months..use your heart, does he really treated you more special than he treated his others girlfriends? Are you sure that his attention on you has been changed from only being a friend to be more serious?
See from very little things that he treated you...have ever he shown a sign of jealousy when you are quite close to your other boy friend?
Examine well My Friend, coz heart never lie and it couldn`t covered it no matter how hard we tried, do does he.
When you are already sure about his feeling, then go ahead...it`s ok for you to tell him about your feeling. But if you dont sure yet, and dont..try to find it out first. Be patient ya....to allured him, not wrong you give him a sign too, but try to do that bit by bit ya....and when he gave you a sign, you give a feedback ya..

Answer 6

I would say you confused whether to let it now or later.
As you said you know him for the past ten months. It is good enough time that you are in relation. See, you are worried that, he had many gfs in past, so he might consider me as on among in it. This your thoughts and do not know what to do.
Listen my dear friend, Saying I Love You is your job. Reatining you as his gf is his job. So why are you worried for his job. It is absolutely right in your part to say HOW YOU FEEL. If you worry things will not be right, then same thing will happen. You express your feeling , if he is serious , then will act accordingly. Nothing wrong if you say. It does not matter whether it is 10 months or two years if he is a flirt having many gfs. So please do not worry for the matter which is not in your control. Please go forward, and sincerely, honestly express your feelings.
good wishes.
rai

Answer 7

Dear god girl....... dont just say it cause it needs to be said. Wait until its bursting from every pore and screaming itself from your lips; then that is the right time to tell him.

I'm no expert on men (literally) but i'd imagine it would have one of two effects: 1) He'll be chuffed and you'll get sooooooo lucky you'll be sitting on ice for a week; or 2) you'll see a puff of dust (like in the road-runner cartoons) and he'll vanish before you finish the "Oooooo" sound (as in "i love you'ooooooo"

Hope it goes to plan.


JJ

Answer 8

DEFINATELY!!!

Boys can be different about this. It really bothered my ex when i said that and so naturally when yiu get into another relationship you will feel shy to say, as you dont want to scare them. When I met my current b/f of 3 years, i thought he was so amazing and i didnt want to ruin a thing by say ing i loved him. And then the one night just out of the blue, HE came out and said it much to my suprise.

So my answer... Yes!!! Tell him! He might be too bashful to say and really he is waiting for you to do it. REalistically... what have you got to lose?

Answer 9

pass on - he grew to become into on no account in to you - yet take it slow - for despite drew you to this guy is going to entice you to a distinctive fraud like him till you artwork out why you have been with him interior the 1st place. whether i do no longer see something incorrect with relationship somebody 12 years youthful than you - it the case the place somebody is purely 19 and the different is 31 - the nineteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous isn't mature adequate and the 31 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous might desire to grasp extra helpful - somewhat if the nineteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous remains living along with her mum and dad (thank you to immature if it is the case when you consider which you haven't any longer journey adequate approximately life yet).

Answer 10

I would personally put it as a joke .......

ie/ " you know I love you really ha ha ha "

And then watch his reaction, this should tell you if the time is right.

then you can try the opposite..

ie/ " You know you love me, I'm too cute for you not to ha ha ha "

See how this works, this way you are not opening yourself up to a fall, but you are testing the ground for the future. This is how I do it anyway, and it does work very well.


Good luck babe x x x

Answer 11

I hope he really loves u coz 10 mnths is a lot,you guys shud have said "i luv U" atleast a hundred times by now.In a normal relationship couples express their luv 4 each other in early stages and it often dies with time.as for u it is quite odd,but tell him. its neither early nor late.just choose the right moment.