getting a boyfriend is usually the last thing i want to do ,all because of my previous relationship which was a mess.he betrayed my trust. the second relationship that i was in i messed it up because i didnt trust him and he hated it so bad but it aint my fault.how do i trust a boy again?
2006-07-09 23:20:42 · 24 answers · asked by fifty's gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your previous negative experiences are negatively affecting your present and possible future relationships. You should handle your future relationships differently or else you will never have a successful relationship again. Ok so your X betrayed you and cheated on you, but not all guys are the same, and if you treat all the guys you meet with suspicion and distrust you are basically telling each one of them that they are liars and not trustworthy and you are indirectly insulting them and ruining any chance for a fruitful relationship. There is a saying that goes something like:" If you love a bird set it free and if it returns to you it's yours forever", think about it. Just give the guys you get into a relationship with in the future a chance, or else you will never be with a man again.
2006-07-09 23:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by rabb b 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
In a similar situation. I think you could find the most faithful person ever, but because you have trust issues from previous relationships, you will always feel this way.
I know how horrible it is because you eventually do land up pushing people away instead of keeping them. Its a tough one to deal with. As the saying goes, once bitten... twice shy.
2006-07-10 06:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time to mend your heart before you can trust again. Not all boys are like the other. Good luck in finding love. It is a hard thing to find but once you do it is well worth it.
2006-07-10 06:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as for girls why it is hard to trust you females. I say get back in there and find that special person. You can't give up, just don't put to much in the relationship untill there is a wedding band on your finger.
2006-07-10 06:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right trust will come naturally.
If you have any doubts, just be open and honest with your partner. If they love you then they will accept you as you are regardless of any issues you may with trust. And in time you will learn that he is not the same as the others, if indeed he isn't.
2006-07-10 06:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by robert d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK POSITIVE!!!dont let yo past relationship ruin that element of trust in you,go out there and make friends with guys.u'l see what fun it is to b friends with guys.NB:just be friends with them for a while.u'll find a guy who complements your character as time goes on..... i was dumped thru an SMS on friday when i was out clubbing and believe it or not,the friends who gave me support were the guys. I am healing now.
2006-07-10 06:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by phat luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl friend from webdate*dot*com told me that before but I said her trust herself first and maybe there's something wrong with her. Try to trust again but this time don't pour it all, have some for yourself. I didn't even told her to doubt ok, just take life lightly.
2006-07-10 06:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by edz1624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust - both boys and girls are in the same boat. cannot blame each others.
its depends upon the person's expectation..
most of the boys expectation is for one thing...( everybody knows what is that..!!) its your talent to choose a correct one..
best of luck.
2006-07-10 06:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by mana v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your life to be happy why dont you just find someone ugly and love him truthfully that way i think he wont even betray you
2006-07-10 06:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust up to u .got a mind of ur own .think it over
2006-07-10 06:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by (omplExity _|_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋