im tired of meeting the wrong guys. im a nice girl and (i hope) fun to be with but always seem to get hurt. I'd like to meet someone whoes nice. can anyone help? if you do, share and help make a girl happy!!! x:-p
2006-07-09 22:44:53 · 24 answers · asked by Amie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so would we all love. theres no set formula for it im afraid.
2006-07-09 23:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjinx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find what you look for. If you keep finding wrong guys then it's time to re-evaluate what you really want.
As an aside, how a woman wants to be treated and how a woman deserves to be treated are not always the same thing.
Give up looking on the internet, it's a bad way to maintain a relationship and only marginally better and finding someone. Get out in the world and when you meet someone who is truly compatible you'll feel it.
2006-07-10 07:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of them out there it just they are usually the ones that you don't find attractive .....if you worry more about the person and less about what they look like or what they have you tend to find more nice people ...women never used to give me the time of day I was totally surprised when my wife actually accepted my offer to diner I was used to being turned down she says it was the best decision of her life ..its not that i"m ugly I just was a bit overweight with longer hair traits she wasn't usually attracted too but she liked my jokes so thought what the heck ...the rest is history married 18 years and ohh so happy
2006-07-10 05:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you REALLY want to meet a GOOD Guy?
How about a GREAT Guy??
(You are going to have to TRUST me on this one...)
You will need to learn to be GREAT to YOURSELF first. If you become independent, self-reliant, and self-loving (without getting selfish or egotistical), you will become a strong individual. Success attracts success, and Good People attract Good People.
You can join social organizations that helps you with people skills (like Toastmasters International) or become a volunteer, or take fun elective classes. If you are in school, join a club that would interest YOU. Any self improvement would be a good LIFE improvement.
Being a better YOU would help attract a better HIM.
2006-07-10 05:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by dustytymes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a fair share of wrong partners... then one day I reflected on myself and realised that all my "wrong" partners were behaving or criticising me for rather similar topics. The fights we've had were also for rather similar issues. And, most surprising to me, was that I was attracted to partners of almost similar character and temperament.
I decided to change myself instead. I realised that if keep looking out for partners in bars, I'll find sex instead. And if I keep showing off my body, then the focus would not fall on my character but my body.
I've had much better success now but relationships are still based on give AND take. Sharing each others' expectations of each other helped me tremendously.
2006-07-10 05:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by My2cents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I 'm nice and it don't work I got shat on by all the women I have ever dated... treat 'emmean keep em keen was a motto I never liked to hear, but it seemed to work for a lot of the blokes I used to know, now I'm lonely and not happy about it... what the hell can I do, be nasty?
2006-07-10 05:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is Nothing called Nice dear...
Newton laws says.. Every force has Equal and Opposite reaction..
Its realy depend Upon U.... ... Try this formula once more with any Guy.. U will Suceed.. Best Of Luck
2006-07-10 05:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by HARISH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is someone out there to make you happy, and to treat you nice. However, they are probably much older......and have learn through the years how to treat a woman, and make her feel special at times....how to make her happy.....and how to make her thankful everyday for the man she has. You jsut ahve to look, and be surprized when you missed him, and he sneaks up behind you, and taps you on the shoulder, and asks you something stupid
2006-07-10 05:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice guy, yes I do have flaws but there ain any perfect people out there. I'm 24 and into photography, sprituallity, films, cycling e.c.t.
wanna know more just ask away.
But if not good luck in your search.
2006-07-10 05:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Clint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selection is important. You were wrong in selecting people which you should admit. Anyways, mistakes always teaches and u need to learn from that. micky_says@yahoo.com is my mail address. Mail me if interested in me.
2006-07-10 06:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by micky_says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I am a nice guy
2006-07-10 05:48:49 · answer #11 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋