Woz married for 6 Years but finally took the brave step to leave my controlling husband 6 months ago,I have three beautiful children,whom i raise by myself and i work to support them.
Have recentley met a lovely guy who seems really into me but the problem is he"s only 22 (im 28) Our lives are totally different,he lives at home with his parents still!! Do you think this relationship could ever go anywhere or should i cut and run before i get to involved???
2006-07-09 22:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by nailstoperfection 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like hell should you run....6 years is nothing....if you make each other happy and your good for each other,go for it.....lifes too short not to take a chance now and then.
as long as he treats you and your kids well....dont let him go
2006-07-09 23:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by julie w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That purely depends on what you both and individually want out of life. If your goals are alike, and you are both mature, then age gap is not an issue. There a 15 yr age gap between me and my hubby and we've been together for 7 years.The other matter though is the fact that you do have children. The question is whether at his age he would be willing to accept somebody else's kids. Once again, this depends on the maturity, but love conquers all. I accepted my hubby's kids, the kids lived with us for 2 years but they changed (teenagers!) and now they are back with their mum. It is a lot to ask of anybody of any age to take on the 'baggage'. So, back to your question; age gap does not matter, you need to look at the whole picture, as that might prove the problem. Good luck!
2006-07-09 23:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not. But u have to look at the maturity level. At 23 I started to live in with my 33 year GF. She had lost her husband in a bank dacoity, he was a Branch Manager. I moved in knowing well that it will make a difference by my being with them (she her 2 boys then 4 & 6). It was a conscious descision and obediance to God's will.
Love
2006-07-09 22:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesot matter Unless U have a Youthfull Heart to Love.
U are 28 and responsible enough to take decissions as that Guy also .. if he is responsible enough to share Your Joy and Sorrow with You as a life partner and adopt your children as his Own.. this is VERY VERY important...
Let me know the Final result Ok............. U can get suggesions but the final decission is let to U... Best of Luck..
2006-07-09 23:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by HARISH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years at that age is probably not a big issue, morally, but it could be an issue if he is not as mature as you. As you get older the socially allowable gap increases. My grandfather recently married a woman 24 years his junior... but he's 92, so it's ok (although his oldest daughter is not much younger).
As for me, I'm still trying to date girls that are 22, but I'm more than 28 now. ;-)
2006-07-09 22:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is built on love and trust and age should not be an issue if it feels good to you then go for it and do not let the chance to be happy pass you by just because of a few years age gap
go for it be happy xXx
2006-07-09 23:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by jkm13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not ave dated someone 7 yrs younger and 19 yrs older and guess what the younger one understood me better and was capable of managing me much much better am still seeing him and i love him loads esp coz am damn crazy with a weird mind and imaginations but he keeps me on track like no nonsence. maybe the children bit might be tricky i dont know
2006-07-10 02:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess..you're matured enough to know what is right for you,try to think a hundred times before you enter another relationship because of what you had said that you just separated.try to weigh if it's really a true love or you just longing a friend to lean on or comfort you...
2006-07-09 22:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age difference ? U wil get shocked on hearing this den.My lover and i have gt age difference of 20 yrs , still we hv gt deep relationship.Only thing that matters is LOVE!!!!!
2006-07-09 22:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by kool k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself got the right answer , this will be a mess if you become serious in this relation , for a kick ,its OK , not permanent , within days this new one will be bored and you will be desperate , better not to enter in this future mess .
2006-07-09 22:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋