Well I'm going out wit this guy and I'm not sure if i really like him.We have been goin out for like 5 days now but i seem too wild for him. Should i give him a longer time to see if he will get wilder or just break up with him?
2006-07-09 22:08:59 · 23 answers · asked by Lacey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him more time to warm up, or maybe you could calm down a bit.
2006-07-09 22:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, Most importantly you are the one that can decide what to do. Ask yourself seriously whether u would like to spend a little bit more time to develop this new found relationship? Or whether to see u really really like him?
I do believe no matter how wild u are if the guys really likes and eventually love u, u both can be wild together (better) or he would truly accept what u are as he loves u then.
Before, my current 21/2 years bf was with me i am having the same situation as you....I am not wild but loud almost everything from my voice to dressing.... What's worst i went out with him for like months before we are a couple....
So give sometime for each other..... It would tell thru the time :P
Take care :)
2006-07-09 22:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Princess S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time a bit...For you and for him as well. In this internet ppl want everything done in a snap with the least effort! 5 days is really nothing . Maybe he's just a little shy and will open up if you just let him.Also sometimes we need someone to calm us down from time to time. Otherwise it could be way too hectic.
2006-07-09 22:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him more time. The guy is just getting use to you. Maybe your a little too wild and he's a little to calm. Everyone has to make some sacrifice in a relationship.
2006-07-09 22:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Love Help Here For You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird because I started going out with a guy and I wasn't really sure if I liked him or not to begin with. So after five days, I dumped him. Now that I looked back on it, he would've been a really good boyfriend, but he just wasn't for me. Do what you feel is right.
2006-07-09 22:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by pandabear™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, most women usually arent looking for the sex asap kindof guys but u seem to be 1. If ure defention of wild is just liike partying or sumting then just give him a chance to get comfortable!!!
2006-07-09 22:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by TheDreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is one interesting question some guys can be shy and they are more wilder then they seem idd try going some place quiet and if things didnt improve not wild enough buy you a male hooker lol idd have similer problems with girls but they where way differnt then being wild it was more like she thought i wanted too rape her when i asked too go inside
2006-07-09 22:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Love These Hoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous and is showing off to impress you? Has he changed since before you were going out? If he is wild all the time then you should dump him, you can't be with someone who makes you uncomfortable.
2006-07-09 22:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by cobra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only know him for 5 days only,don't too fast ask ourself whether we like him or not,and don't jump on his bed yet.be patient.if you feel very ease, happy and always laughing when you are with him,and also did not pretend that something you are not when you are with him,YES, you like him.and maybe some days you will fall in Love with him.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-07-09 22:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by sibuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if ur goin to date a guy for just that u should end it cus he may really care about u and u may hurt him hunnie but if u really like him give him a chance
2006-07-09 22:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋