Alright to I don't get it, I just want to be able to understand, i told a lie to a boy and he got really mad at me so i apoligized. But now he is seeing this 19 year old whore. Should I be mad becuase we were getting somewhere, or should I not care because it's not like we were going out? I just want that right boy, but it's like boys don't understand all the little hints you kinda drop by them. So pretty much my question is how do you understand boys?
2006-07-09 21:30:18 · 20 answers · asked by manda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do feel bad for lying. And i have told him over and over. The girl is a bad girl, i'm not just calling her that because I'm jealous she has been around the block, and she's not very smart. Thanks for all your help!
2006-07-09 21:40:02 · update #1
If you lie, expect to get treated badly in return. Maybe he was going for you until you lied and now he doesn't care about you. People are all the same. Treat them with honesty and respect and you'll get treated the same. Treat them like crap and you'll get treated like crap.
2006-07-09 21:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this boy was very ready to move on from you now that he is with someone else. the one thing you should know is that guys for the most part don't prefer hassle or stress with their other. you shouldn't be mad cause there was nothing there anyway. you should probably not try so hard, and just be honest and real.
2006-07-10 04:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you that boys are confusing as hell. But in reality, us girls are just as confusing. We play tons of games with guys. For example, flirting with a guy just to see if you can get him to fall for you and then rejecting him when he asks you out is a game that I'm sure confuses the sh*t out of guys. But then again, guys play games with us... like making bets with their friends on whether or not we'll go out with them or flirting with us and dropping hints when they won't even go out with you because they like someone else more. So in the end, you will never understand a guy's motives unless you actually talk to him and find out what he's thinking.
2006-07-10 04:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by pandabear™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those little hints.. women.. Why are boys so confusing? Maybe because you want them to do everything. You want someone, try being forward. Try showing that you care enough to ask them out. Boys so confusing.. ha
2006-07-10 04:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to be honest with u, girls are the same confusing sometimes. it's just if he (and u) thought ur not going out - so what's the question? maybe he just didin't want to get too much involved when he saw that he cannot trust u from teh begining.
so he chose smth more trustable.
forget it and move on living.there are millions of guys on this planet - get urself a new one:)
2006-07-10 04:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by rafinuota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl just give up. You will never figure them out, just like they will never figure us out. If you told him the truth and he got mad at u coz of that and went straight to the arms of a lesser character, then gal u need to be glad u hadn't started going out with him. U desrve better.
2006-07-10 04:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just want a boyfriend right now, and you don't even like this guy too much. If he moved onto her quickly, he's just looking for sex. If you just want sex as well, give him stronger hints. I know strong hints may be a turnoff to women, but guys are much more attune to receiving them. If you want a relationship with someone, lay off him.
2006-07-10 04:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by SQRD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 yrs old an i don't even know the right answer to give you because im still trying to figure my man out myself but they are confusing just like we are confusing to them but you can't expect them to be mind readers just like they don't expect us to be one if you want something like i always say put God first an go for it don't get mad if he is seeing someone else don't give him that satisfaction maybe he wasn't right for you or what you are looking for describe to God when you pray thats if you do your ideal husband that you would like to find you an pray for that every night thats my only suggestion an that work for me
2006-07-10 04:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she a whore cause she has ur man now females are always hating on each other get over him men come a dime a dozen because the chicks you call names and stuff and front of ur bf's all ur do is make him want to know if its really true about us and holla
2006-07-10 04:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by chevelle c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hon that was your fault. you should feel sorry for yourself and trash talk the whore then move on. heres a lesson on understanding not only boys but people in general: they do not like to be lied to.
2006-07-10 04:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋