Out having a good time..A lady flirts with my man..I'm not insecure ,but I won't be disrespected..As we leave ,he turns,looks& even smiles..So I slapped his a**!!! Justified or not?
2006-07-09 21:09:01 · 14 answers · asked by blueboyswoman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl that was some wild s*** you pulled. You should of just left his *** wherever u were. What the hell am I talkin but, I would have kneed in him in the balls.
2006-07-09 21:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tastee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not....he didn't ask the lady to flirt with him. Some women consider it a compliment that another woman find their man attractive. So he got a cheap thrill out of someone flirting with him. He probably smiled because he was amused. Nothing justifies striking another person...that includes women. And, yes..that was an insecure and immature act.
2006-07-10 04:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not justified. Don't put yourself in a man's place unless you're ready to get treated like a man. Had the situation been reversed, he would have been hauled off to jail on a domestic violence charge. He didn't physically harm you, & you were in no way justified to physically harm him. You're very fortunate he didn't knock the taste out of your mouth in retaliation for your unwarranted attack. Next time, use your words & be an adult. If you feel he's disrespecting you, let him know in no uncertain terms. If he can't respect you then, leave him.
2006-07-10 04:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slapped his a**? i'd have slapped you back real HARD! you're both wrong. if you want respect, you need to work on that calmly and intelligently when you are not threatened by THE OTHER WOMAN and when he is not 'baiting' you. get some books or whatever and learn to have a good SECURE respectful relationship instead of the 'slap-happy' power-struggle you are both engaged in now.
try this: http://couplesrecovery.com/
2006-07-10 04:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I disagree! No one deserves to be slapped, hit, pushed, kicked or whatever, it's wrong. You wouldn't like it if he slapped you.
Domestic violence ruins relationships everyday and it can start with something as simple as just a single slap.
Don't open doors that are not meant to be opened. You should've told him that if he wants another chick, go get it! Tell him that you want one man, one relationship and it that's not what he wants, it's best to move on.
Don't settle.
2006-07-10 04:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Power!
2006-07-10 04:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Amani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely. Although some may argue against me, he had NO right flirting w/her if he is w/you.
2006-07-10 04:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should he slap the sh*t out of you if you do it to him?More double standard BS ladies.No its called assault.
2006-07-10 04:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He clearly has no respect for you or the relationship...so dump the son of a b@^*h!!
2006-07-10 04:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely justified. great job
2006-07-10 04:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋