What if you are in a situation wherein you have brothers needing you so much but you can't offer any help at all. Furthermore, they felt mad at you because of that fact. If there is any advise you can give to them to be moving on in their lives / still reaching out for their dreams (despite the rage they have at heart and amidst the crises they are into), what would that be?
2006-07-09 21:02:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them that you love them, and wish you could help them more, but that you are not able to. Assure them that you will support them in every way possible (mentally, emotionally, helping them find resources).
Offer to help them find agencies that can help them, whatever their needs are right now. Suggest they get counseling to help deal with the rage.
Above all, make sure they know you will always be there for them, in whatever way you can, although the circumstances of your own life limits the ways you can assist them.
2006-07-17 16:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you may be their sister, but it doesn't mean you owe them a living. Tell them that if you keep bailing them out, when will they learn to fend for themselves? Tell them to stand on their own two feet.
2006-07-10 05:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Dear bros, do not be hindered by whatever you maybe feeling or are into right now. Go ahead and prove to yourself that you can do it!" Hope this can be of help.
2006-07-10 05:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋