well i've been just sitting here thinking. What if i really do like him? I get all happy when i see him, I get exicted when i talk to him. I love it how he's just great. I like when he is always on top of things. I like how he is built and his nice buff arms. I love him. but (yeah theirs a but) he has a g.f and i dont know if he knows how much i like him, him and his girl have been having problems. (with her parents they dont like him) and i really dont know why. but i want him. lol... is that selfish. He means everything to ME. But i dont want him to unhappy. cause he told me that if anything everyhappy to his g.f right now (like if they broke up) he wouldn't ever been the same. Is just something i want or should i evern try??
2006-07-09 20:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. I didn't have to read the rest of your details, i can tell from the top line. The only reason you'd think it over is if you don't think you'll find better. You will. You don't like him. Don't waste your time and his. If you want to screw him, he won't object. But don't play games with either of your hearts. If you have to ask.. the answer is no. .... Ok, I've read it now.. the details do swamp it a bit.. and i can understand the confusion.. but I'd go with first instinct.. If you aren't sure then it's not true. You want to cuddle the hurt puppy dog, and you find him interesting. Once you get too know him and after time.. he won't be hurting, and he won't be interesting.
2006-07-09 20:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the angel and stand by him , if he trusts you so much as to discuss his girlfriend with you , you pretty much are his confidante in terms of his relationship scores. sometimes being a best friend is more important than just being a girlfriend.
if you had to tell him your true feelings , i wouldn't know how that would help him in his current relationship since he seems clearly and hopelessly in love with this other girl .
instead, love him and if there is the opportunity to confess your love to him , do so , but at the right time , when you know your friendship won't be marred.
all the best !
2006-07-09 20:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting somebody is not selfish. We all have right to like somebody. But to destroy any existing and flouruishing relationship, just so that i might develop one with the person i love, is selfish and bad. If i love someone, really and truely then i must be prepared to accept pain in order to make him/her happy. I suggest you try and be a casual friend. Pray for his happiness. Warm regards
2006-07-09 20:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Soul_infinite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait untill there relation ship comes to an end . it may be +ve or -ve. then according to situation you can set and do the things. better help him first if you feel it is impossible to make them close. then express your feelings to him in a polite manner. if they gets close. dont get upset because. love is only a part of life. it is not a life ok .
2006-07-09 20:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things go the way they are going now and dont interfere. It is soo obvious you love him so tell him how you feel and just ride the rest of the waves.
2006-07-09 20:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its really hard because he has a girlfriend and they're having problems but if you really got it bad for him, you would want to do what would make him happy! i know it sounds stupid cuz you do want to be with him, but just wait! if they ever break up, just be there for him: confort him and make sure he's ok... then cuz you'll be getting close, and maybe he'll realize that he likes you too
2006-07-09 20:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a chic move on. There is nothing worse than a chic that's sweating another chics man.
If they break up then move in.
Don;t play yourself.
2006-07-09 20:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same u should apologise for asking and then ask him if he still wants to be ur friend.
2006-07-09 20:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt u like him.
Pl check out if he also have same feelings for you.
2006-07-09 20:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has prob with his current gf den Just tell him dat u like him..........he might think abt u coz of dere probs.
Go ahead..........coz until he know ur feelings how can he think abt u??
2006-07-09 20:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋