well i am 13 years old haven't had a bf yet many have asked me 2 thier gf but i keep refusing coz i want the first bf 2 be special do u think this is odd ???
2006-07-09 20:31:52 · 20 answers · asked by Nirvana FREAK! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you go girl...
stick up for yourself and wait until YOU ARE READY and not before
2006-07-09 20:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same exact way...You're like the first person who I met whos waiting for the right guy. (Except I'm 14 years old.) I've had guys ask me out but I tell them I just want to be friends. Sometimes they get mad at me and sometimes they do become my friends. I've got more guy friends then most girls in school. Another reason I'm waiting though is just not because I'm waiting for the right one but because right now my friends are most important. Boys just get in the way of that (I've seen it happen with my friends) So if they think you're odd then I'm just a plain old freak. Good luck finding the right one.
2006-07-10 03:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not odd. Trust me, your first bf has a larger impact on you than you realize, especially if you take it as seriously as it sounds that you will. Wait for a guy who will treat you right, respect you and be patient and understand you. You only get your first bf once, right? So make sure he's special. You'll feel it when it's right. :)
2006-07-10 03:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hold firmly to your beliefs you're doing right many people thinks that im weird im engaged an i have not had sex yet an most people finds that hard to believe that its still a woman who wants to stay a virgin until marriage so stay true to yourself don't let anyone manipulate you in doing something that you will live to regret
2006-07-10 03:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear little angel , do not allow these nasty ideas come near you if you want to grow strongly and want to have wonderful years yet to come . Give some more years to your studies and sports , play nice games , make good health and body , then must go ahead for all these natural requirements .
2006-07-10 03:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on ahead and do what you believe. Im your age and havent had a boyfriend for the same reason as you even though many boys have asked.
2006-07-10 03:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not odd.. the way you think is correct..how the media and our peers have changed our mindsets to think that this right way is now the wrong way
continue to stay true to what YOU WANT and not what other people expect you to be.
Be strong girl! you have my respect
2006-07-10 03:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be odd ,but it should'nt be.I think you are doing the right thing.Enjoy being a kid,it's the best years of your life.
2006-07-10 03:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all do what you feel is right if you dont think those guys are the one for you then dont go with them you'll find the one for you sooner or later an he will be worth the wait.
2006-07-10 03:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by miss. k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i think it takes along time to have a bf they need to know that it takes trust and ability to find a friend like that
2006-07-11 21:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by icey chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all...but don't wait too long...i'm a guy, and as they get older, they want more...don't rush it, but don' t wait 4ever either...bit don't spend all ur time looking for the perfect guy, cause chances are u won't find a perfect one for a few years
2006-07-10 03:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋