He checked his messages over here and since that was the last # called, I was curious and I found out he's still living with the girl he used to mess with, picking girls up, among other things. Should I tell him ? It's been a week and he still doesn't know that I know dam near everything.
2006-07-09 20:29:46 · 15 answers · asked by dcbossygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep........open the valves and let it flow
You deserve better.
2006-07-09 20:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if the guy is definately still living with an exhe may still from time to time be "going to bed" with her. if he is picking up other girls for dates he can not be classed as a boyfriend (as in potential lover).
he can be classed as a love rat, cheater, player amongst other points.
so NO! don't tell him; just every couple of hours redial his voicemail and erase the messages. followed by recording a new personal greeting on his answering service. saying something like welcome to the cheaters centre, where we openly discuss STD's amoingst other topics leave your name and disease after the beep.
see how many people leave a message after hearing that message. oh and disguise your voice or get a male friend to set the message.
this could open you up to criminal charges but at least it's a fun way to get back at the cheating slimeball.
I'm sure you can think of a better message to have instead of the one i suggested.
your better off to have a little fun with him and playing the games above, see if he can work out who is messing with his VM.
2006-07-10 03:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know as much as you need to to leave him. Now all you have to do is figure out a great way to screw him over or just leave with no explanation. I'd prefer the former. You know his password so you can pretend you're him on his messages. One way to have fun is have all the girls he's messing with and picking up to meet him at the same time. And make sure he's there. Enjoy!
2006-07-10 03:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend I think your BF is a useless excuse for a Boy. He has no respect for you at all I think you should tell that you know everything and that if he wants someone that will say its OK baby I forgive you just don't let it happen again then he needs to just keep looking and not in your direction because any man of yours will respect you. Honey after all if you don't look out for number one who will. KICK THE BASTARD TO THE CURB FAST HE MIGHT GIVE YOU SOMETHING AJAX WONT TAKE OFF!!!
2006-07-10 03:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by nyrwldstdrms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't talk ot him anymore act like you have better thing to do cause you do. MOVE ON.
Why you want to be in a line up.
Me I'm to special for that. I find out something like that and I'm out of your life for real.
I would just stop seeing him and not tell him why.
Don't answer the phone when he calls
Don;t answer the door when he comes over.
Just keep it moving like he was a speed bump.
If and when you do say anything to him about it he just gonna try some reverse Phycology on you.
Tell you that you nosey and stuff like that so do yourself a favor and get out on the line up.
Unless you like being next in line.
2006-07-10 03:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah open the valves...you've got some issues on trust too if you checked your bf's private messages. but in this case things turned out more positive for you.
leave this guy and moveon to greener pastures. and work on your trust issues too. not everyone you meet in the future will be like your selfish bf
2006-07-10 03:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How have you managed not to say anything for this long?
If you are in an exclusive relationship, this is absolutely unacceptable. Even if you are not necessarily exclusive yet, he has still been lying to you and you need to bring it up to him somehow. The sooner the better.
2006-07-10 03:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Llammas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you need to ask yourself after finding all of this out, is why you are even still referring to him as your b/f? Don't even bother giving him a chance to try to explain why he's such a low-life cheating loser.. Kick that dog to the curb...
2006-07-10 03:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, tell him AFTER you break up with him. there's no reason to be with someone who lies to you that well and that much. PLUS, he doesn't even deserve time to make up an excuse or give an explanation. compulsive liars are never good for relationships.
2006-07-10 03:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after knowing everything do you think you need to ask this question. Have a talk with him. remember once a cheater can be cheater again
2006-07-10 03:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by abuddyonline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in it for the sex.. then nothing changed.. if not.. well at least you know now that you like the wrong type of guy..
2006-07-10 03:33:35 · answer #11 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋