I guess i am lil old fashioned when i say that i dont like live relationships as i feel they are ruining the idea of marriages..
Nowadays the couple doesnt have anything to look forward to as the live relationships bare the couple to the core and the decision of getting married gets lesser and lesser...
Live in relationships result in more single parents than usual..
What do u think???
2006-07-09 20:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by gentle_cute_man 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the thrill of waiting should be kept alive for couples. Some live together, and when they marry they just look at each other and say "now what"?
I find that truly ridiculous and I think the old fashioned way is much better and much more thrilling and exciting to both partners in the business of marriage... :)
I will go the old fashioned way, for sure. Life is long enough anyway... spending it with the same person, we will get tired and bored with each other a thousand times afterwards - let at least the beginning be nice and romantic, to have something to look back at!
Good gurl I am, or not? :-)
2006-07-10 17:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live in relationships are never a good idea. because the guy is getting all the good tigns, sex, love etc without any commitement other than the strenght of their words.
why should the men commit when he has all this things already? why bother going into a marriage if he's aready haveing the benefits of marraige?
the one that suffers most is the girl because anytime when the bf decides to up and leave, its very easy for him, but for women its harder.
girls deserve better
2006-07-09 20:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a VERY FINE LINE which many people do not realise!
What's the difference between sex AFTER marriage or BEFORE marriage? What's the difference between a chicken SHOT to death SLAUGTERED HUMANELY to death? What's the difference between STEALING a car and BUYING a car? I think you get the answer now don't you?
Marriage is RIGHT and Live In Relationship is WRONG. 'Nuff said.
2006-07-09 20:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by apakejadahnyaini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in a live in relationship either. I was married for many years until my husband passed. He married me because he loved, respected, honored & cherised me. I returned the same. My beliefs are the same today. I just don't judge those that decide to do this, as times have changed and no one frowns on lots of "wrongs" in this world anymore. I've decided to live and let live and not let others transgressions ruin my beliefs or life with silly & trivial incidents that aren't affecting me or impacting my life at all. Single parents exsist anyway. Girls are rapidly seeking for pregnancy and don't even care to live with the father of the child. They still live at home with their parents and see other guys. These parents were brought up in another era and are married because their parents wouldn't allow for anything else. Society is what has changed, broken down and is going to hell in a handbasket. What am I supposed to do about it? Nothing.My own parents tired of rules and regulations after they lost an 11 yr. old son in and auto accident. The other siblings that were still living at home were greatly affected by their change in attitude. My two younger brothers had virtually no discipline and the youngest had many events in his life that he was so sorry for after the fact. We've all paid one way or another for these horrible incidents that befell our family. But strength & courage given to me by GOD has sustained me through all the tribulations. I still haven't changed my outlook in life, but I have slacked off the thoughts of being perfect. After being married for so many years, I have no one to share my life with and if I were to meet someone, I realize that I don't need to live with a person any longer to have a relationship with them. I would just be grateful to have them in my life. As far as my GOD goes, HE would not subject me to punishment. I put in my time and did a damn good job of it. I am loved and accepted by HIM and thats all that matters to me........
2006-07-10 02:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was married for 12 years until my hubby passed and now tired of being alone but marriage is not as big a deal as it was before so my b/f and i are going to live together, i think it just depends on the person
2006-07-09 21:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pro and anti
2015-09-30 03:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jenelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋