My bf and I recently had a fight, and we broke up for one day (live together, both 21). After the whole thing, came to me wanting to have sex saying he wanted to fix things, when I told him he was probably lieing and just wanted sex, he told me that I don't want to fix things. We have sex, he's a very affectionate person. He tells me he loves me all the time, touches me, kisses me, etc. After we get off the phone when he calls me at work or I call him whereever he is, he always says he loves me. Now he just says "talk to you later". He never says that to me, infact if I don't say I love you before we got off the phone he tells me a bunch till I say it, incase I was in a hurry or something. I love him, today we talked and I told him I love you, and after a sec he paused and said I love you too. When i called later to tell him something, he didn't even say it, why isn't he telling me now, is he still upset? We've been together for 5 years. I asked if he wanted to break up and he said no.
2006-07-09 19:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by Liquid Cherry Blood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want him to be mad, I don't want him to feel preassured because i told him I love you. We normally say it about 10 times a day to eachother, seriously.
2006-07-09 19:55:07 · update #1
and the fight was about him looking at porn for years, then one night I did it just to see what the big deal it was with him, and he saw me, and is now being double standard. Telling me it was messed up of me, but he does it all the time.
2006-07-09 20:00:11 · update #2
I called him back later telling him that if he didn't want to say it back for some reason, I was just letting him know that he didn't have to. I don't want to irritate him, but at the same time I want things to go back to how happy they were before this happened. I'm afraid he is going to secretly start hating me or something.
2006-07-09 21:22:25 · update #3
Talk to him. Tell him what is happening,what is bothering him. Is it work or something? Ask him. Have communication to find resolutions to your problem. Give him some space. If you frequently ask him, he'll get irked. But don't just say the words. Demonstrate it. Showing how much you love him is what really matters. He has to do his part, too. He has to show it to you. That is how your love will be proven real.
2006-07-09 19:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you want him do not wait in simple terms textual content him reason communications key in serious relationships. And no you probably did not over react you're a strong gf in case you advised him you weren't mad anymore, and he should be extra expertise of the area. in simple terms ask him what HE would sense and do in case you advised him you loved yet another guy... The conversations might want to convey about something significant from then on. make positive you enable him understand how you sense, and that you don't need to argue.
2016-10-14 07:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by cottrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me put this too straight. im a guy, and we all want the same thing. the sex was just probably because he wants it, but doesnt want to find someone else. he might love you or he might not. i would talk to him. you would never know if you dont ask him. asking us wont really help, if you want to know the truth if he loves you or not, then i would talk to him.
2006-07-09 19:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after i had analysed ur's and ur bf's nature i come to know about some interesting fact that he is getting bored of u, n another thing is that if he is a little bit menacing nature i think he must have probably got another gf or he must b little bit playfull to u making u as a doll a puppet.
2006-07-09 19:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Praveen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY relationship has dry spots. READ the book men are from mars and women are from venus. THAT will explain a lot of stuff your going through. BUT honestly you need to give him space.Hang in there star
2006-07-09 19:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be hiding something. The only way you'll find out is by asking him. Communicate with him. Good luck.
2006-07-09 19:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if it was a HUGE fight he still loves you but you just need to give it time. If it wasnt then he might be over you.
2006-07-09 19:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Yo Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a major crisis. sound all alarms. wake the dead. holy cow how can u even take your next breath? why don't u just ask him instead of playing high school games.
2006-07-09 19:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things cool down. don't rush to conclusions and throw your love away.
2006-07-09 19:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap...So do either one of u show one another ur true love...Don't just say, show it like u mean it. Dat's wat count.
Best of luck!!
2006-07-09 19:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋