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While I'm 22 and have never been in a relationship, I find it annoying that women try to flirt with me often.

It usually happens when I'm on the train going to/from work - they come and sit next me me and start stroking their hair and staring at me and it drives me nuts.

I don't like this, as they probably think I'm rich because I wear a suit and use a laptop, and wouldn't want to date someone who thought I was loaded.

Is there anything I can do to keep them away or stop it without making a scene in front of everyone else in public? PS: I'm not Gay, I just like being single.

2006-07-09 19:23:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

haha. aww poor guy. You remind me of someone i used to know, and i thought he was totally full of himself until we had a little chat ( pretty alright guy ), It may or may not help you to know that he used a couple of tricks to get gold diggers and mad flirts off his back. First off, a fake wedding ring, almost any plain ring will do so long as its on the right finger, That doesn't always work so he would also pretend to answer his phone mid flirt attack and fake a conversation with 'wife' Or if he was particuallarly peeved he would strike up a conversation with the girl and say something that was sure to turn her off. Good for you to enjoy the single life, but don't be mean it takes courage to flirt for both men and women, looks don't last forever be glad you have this to complain about and good luck

2006-07-09 19:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by bickeo 4 · 5 1

Can you blame them? Come on now. You could wear a
fake plain gold wedding band, to keep them away. It works
alot. Just put it on whenever you feel you want to be alone.
If a woman STILL approaches, just smile and tell her your
happily married !! You can do this until you can come up
with your own way of verbalizing it. Just be flattered and
think of something else. You can say you already have a
girlfriend. Take a book or magazine with you, so you look
busy and uninterested in anything else. Be glad your getting
checked out now, because believe me later on when you
get older, that may not happen.

2006-07-09 19:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0 0

commitment problem eh? anywhos, its easy to get women to stop flirting wit u..( One question, ur sure they're flirting at you right??)

Here are the list of things you could do:
1. Dont dress so fancy and don look so rich
2. try to be disgusting
3. if you like being single, then y do u hav to dress so nice
4. pick your nose, ear, scratch ur as.s ect infront of them... trust me, u wont hav ur problem anymore
5. Let them know u dun like them staring at you or ask them why are they staring at you.. This makes them think ur a snob so if they see u anywhere else, they wont try to talk or flirt with you.
6. Get over ur commitment problem
7. Go gay
8. Tell them ur taken or try to act like a total jerk
9. why dun u just ***** them and not call them the next day..
10. Lastly, tell her she's a slu.t, who.re, prostitu.te, bimbo and stuff like that... She'll spread the word and you'll be dateless(which is good for you right?) WARNING: She might slap ur sorry as.s...

So, if u follow the list mentioned above, u wont hav any of these problems ever again... Gud Luck!!

2006-07-09 19:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by CatDog 2 · 0 0

well think about this: what if your wife had this problem, say she couldn't stop flirting with men. How would that make you feel? Wouldn't you feel like a fool.. so why are you doing this to her.. what kind of man does that make you? IF you really wanted to stop, I believe you could. so quit making excuses and grow up.

2016-03-15 22:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm 22 and enjoy being single as well! I'd tell you to flash a cheap wedding band, but no one seems to care for monogamy or marriages anymore, which I think is totally sad. So, I think you should just smack the female and say NO! Old-fashioned courtesy with a touch of spice: ) J/K. I'm not one for violence. Okay, okay, I'll get serious. Hm...just ignore them. Arrogance is bliss. Enjoy!

2006-07-09 19:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by wendylady052684 2 · 0 0

Well, i guess u could wear regular clothes on the train and then change into your suit at work...
im not really an expert tho, im just tryin to help a dude in need

2006-07-09 19:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Every time a girl sits next to you just pretend to ring someone and make out as if its your girlfriend on the other end

e.g.
"Hi honey how are you? Did you get that VD cream for me" lol

2006-07-09 19:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Walk with a friend and preten you 2 are going together. or wear a fake wedding band, bring a book or newspaper with you.

Don't take this for granted, most men would kill or die for the attention you're getting.

2006-07-09 19:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it sounds like you wish they would flirt wake up you are train NO CAR think you are rich a rich man has a suite and car wake up you like being single dont worry who want you GET A CAR THEN A DATE WILL COME

2006-07-09 19:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

uh, first of all...get off your ego trip! are you sure they're really interested in you? Maybe you're the least repulsive looking guy on the train. Maybe you have a weird looking face. LOL.
how bout ignoring them?! You're probably not as attractive to them as you think you are...

2006-07-09 19:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by ucd_grad_2005 4 · 0 0

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