2006-07-09 19:13:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, maybe not. But don't force yourself to change and don't try to change.
Just be yourself. Being anything else will just cause stress and make you unhappy.
2006-07-09 19:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will change if you want to change. What is making you scared of commitment is it the person your with? Make sure you look at your pros and cons. Guess I was not scared of commitment I am twenty two and have been married a year and a half. Maybe your just not ready to settle down. You will know when its time!
2006-07-09 19:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will, it is a process and the hurt that you have been through or have witnessed has left you with this issue, you must work through them and then once the real guy comes along you'll be ready.. give it some time before you start seriously dating.
many people have these issues because of unresolved issues from the last relationship, you must UNLOAD the access baggage in order to move forward or else your problem will remain.
2006-07-09 19:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily feel you need to think about committing yourself in a love relationship at the moment. However it IS a problem if you feel it is a problem. Or, are you referring to committing yourself to life tasks, or in jobs?
Either way..personal counseling would do you some good. It can help to get it all out and explore the possibilities.
2006-07-09 19:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about the risk. Why do u wanna change ur serious commitment? If u think its better to cange the commitment, why dont u change it!
2006-07-09 19:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by soad_cesc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to change you can.
It may take some time though.
"The first step is admitting you have a problem."
Are you conciously aware of where your commitment issues are coming from, or do you think you might have to seek professional help? Are you willing to do so?
2006-07-09 19:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, you might you are still young. What is the hurry? You may not have met Mr/ms right. You have a lot of changes to go through in your life. Just go with your instincts and be aware of things around you.
2006-07-09 19:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
humorous you should element out the undeniable reality that you're feeling a relationship may propose you may ought to compromise interior an similar paragraph as wanting a lengthy-time period relationship including your own 'area'. no longer positive that it is the dedication area, yet better the reality you do not pick to ought to make enormous compromises and fell in case you keep your own area you do not ought to absolutely compromise.
2016-11-30 23:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the so call serious commitment?
If you are talking about getting married, you answered your own question.
The fact the you even have to question it, means that might not be the person to get marry to.
2006-07-09 19:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young to even worry about that! Yes,as you ge older and meet the right person, you will most likely change. Just let it happen, dont force it
2006-07-09 19:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were hurt before and you are just cautious. Also, being picky is not a bad thing....You are sooooo young and everything is ahead of you... You will want commitment when the time comes....you will know....
2006-07-09 19:17:50 · answer #11 · answered by Bram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋