ok so ive been feeling like i dont belong like life would be better without me. Its gone to the point where i want to cut myself. I know emo but really wtf can i do so i can be happy again. By the way ive felt like this since i was little. Im just now realizing it.
2006-07-09 19:11:38 · 11 answers · asked by jsnoopy2003 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Been there, know how you feel, any one can give advice, but unless they have been there, they shouldn't. I had a lot of advice thrown at me that didn't help and was better left unsaid. I found that what worked for me was going to my doctor and discussing it with him. He put me on medication, which was great, I felt so much better, and I didn't feel "drugged up". Hobbies are great, they keep your mind busy where you don't think about things so much and dwell on them. Find a great counselor to talk to, maybe you can find out why you feel this way and what started it. Church also helps. You may not feel like going to church or anywhere, but if you find a church that you really like it makes a difference. Hope this helps and I hope you feel better soon. Depression can take a while to get over. I was depressed as a child and adult, but I've been great the past 6 months with no meds. so it's possible to recover and be happy agian. Don't give up. Life is too short as it is.
2006-07-09 19:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by mrs d 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You only get one chance for life, talk to someone, if you are feeling like cutting yourself call a crisis line!!, speak to your dr as well, you may need to see a psychiatrist, you are not alone and it can be copable with the right tools such as a good friend and someone to confide in. I hope you find help, don't let life get you down because there is so much fun and hapiness out there and you will find it again.
from one previously depressed person to another....
take care
2006-07-09 19:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling depressed is normal, but if it's been over a couple weeks then they say you should get help. You're not alone, I've been there too (and still am there.) It's not fun is it? Try not to cut, it leaves nasty scars (I know from experience) I wouldn't get on welbutrine if I were you though, it doesn't make anything better, it makes you have anger probs too (trust me, I've talked to everyone I know who's been on it). I really wish that I could be more helpful, but I'm depressed/suicidal too. There's not much that I can do. I've talked to therapists (who don't want to help, all they want is money) but none of them have worked for me. Just try to hold on to life, and don't make things harder for yourself than they have to be. I hope you/we make it through this. Good luck.
-much luv f/sum1 who's there...
2006-07-09 19:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Stacie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not to sure I feel like that too. Cept don't cut I thought about it once but I accidently cut my finger and it hurt so just imagine cutting your wrist. People say go to a therapist but that would be weird for me so I won't suggest it to you. Maybe get an animal like a dog or cat. Dogs would probly be better and talk to it. Make sure no one watching thou that may freak people out. But animals tend to make people feel better. Like a dog can tell if your sad and will try to make you feel better.
2006-07-09 20:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by dashiabrooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man you take this advice at your own risk!!!!!!!!!!
when i feel like this i like to go out and get wasted. Drink till i can fell the room spinning. Then look around in the bar or party and find the fattest chick thier man. Ask her if she wants to go home with you and talk. You get home and tell her how fat and ugly she is and that you need to let some frustration out dont hit her but say get out of my house you ugly *****. By this time you shoud feel better and say i do belong cuz who is going to tell of the fat women in the world its an ugly job but somones got to do it.
2006-07-09 20:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a special counsling place,that's what my older bro does.I went to the school counsler in elementry to help me with my sadness.But you have to learn that you can't depend on people to always help you or atleast the way you wanted.In order to get help,you must help yourself.It was the same here when I was little.I felt like people hated me and liked my twin bro more.I wanted to feel equal.I tried to impress my mom and keep my room neat and other things.My bros. keep messing up our room.I got in trouble for it.I always seemed to try my hardest to be perfect for everybody.But got yelled at or something.I never dis respect adults,or any body.Even when people said mean things to me,I'd say I'm sorry,or something.But Now I know not to feel sorry for myself,and be myself.But it's harder than it sounds.
2006-07-09 19:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by jkuraah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor and a psychiatrist. Explain exactly how you're feeling without exaggerating or leaving anything out. They'll decide the right course of action for you.
2006-07-09 19:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chark Finn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to somebody who cares...preferably a therapist.
2006-07-09 19:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/depressio
2006-07-09 19:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude!!!! MAYBE YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS ON YAHOO ANSWERS!!!!
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2006-07-09 19:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋