he has a girlfriend(10 months) he says that they have said i love you but if that is true then why is he talking about cheating on her with me?? Should I have sex with him or not? I don't know... he can't really love her if he is talking about cheating. I really want to and so does he but i don't know. Help!!
2006-07-09 19:02:25 · 17 answers · asked by *Lou* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't cheapen yourself by having sex with someone who obviously doesn't care for you. He's only interested in sex, he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, and he's a dog. You deserve better.
Update: After reading some of your other questions, I'm not surprised you'd consider this. I take it all back -- you don't deserve better.
2006-07-09 19:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP RIGHT THERE. The answer is no. Why would you want to cheat with a man who has a girl friend of ten months. How would you feel if you were the one being cheated on? Think how that women will feel if she finds out. There are plenty of men out there that you do not need take someone elses man. I was in a relationship and in love and engaged and was cheated on. Was told it was only sex and meant nothing. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you want to have sex with this man then you must have feeling for him. You do know if you have sex with him and he breaks up with his gf for you. he will eventually cheat on you. How can humans be so cruel to other humans. THat women has done nothing to you. Leave the man alone and stop all contact. You must be doing sometime to turn him on to make hime want to have sex with you . Stay away from him. What comes around goes around.
2006-07-10 02:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you were typing the question you already knew the answer. Right? If you even have to think about this and there is another person involved, this is a place you don't want to go. You think it's confusing now? Just wait until you see how messed up it gets once you've had sex. Turn around, quickly, walk away, don't look back.
2006-07-10 02:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, he might just be looking for a bit of fun with no intention of leaving his current girlfriend who he could love. If he breaks up with her to go out with you, then maybe, but I would date him for a few months before having sex. If he really likes you, he will stay with you and wait for you, and respect you more for it.
Actually on second thought, if he would cheat on his current gf with you, what makes you think he won't cheat on you?
2006-07-10 02:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Liquid Cherry Blood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't become the other woman. It will only serve to make you feel bad. Trust me - there are plenty of men out there worth having sex with that DON'T have girlfriends. Find one of them. I am sure they will treat you better in the end too...
2006-07-10 02:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in love and just looking for some good time, go ahead. But if you are thinking of a long term relationship that ould lead to marriage...then a big NO. If he is not faithful to his present girl, how could he be faithful to you??
2006-07-10 02:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by CURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just sex you want, why not leave him alone, and find someone else. That shouldnt be too difficult. Men are always available for sex. This present guy has his own baggage....
That you DONT need.
2006-07-10 02:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u do know what u should do. You should tell him to get lost, he ain't about nothing. Probably don't even know the meaning of love. We all have this built in radar that tells us right from wrong, it's when u don't listen to it that gets u in trouble. Let him go, you'll be glad u did :-).
2006-07-10 02:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to anyways. just remember the person helping someone cheat is just as much as a jerk as the one doing the cheating.
2006-07-10 02:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Drop him like the scum he is and find someone who ONLY wants to be with YOU. You deserve better than him. He is using you, and you will be the one hurt in the end.
2006-07-10 02:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by shelovesstars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋